"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Nervous about 1st day tomorrow!

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Tomorrows my 1st day at a new school and I cant help but be nervous but I dont wanna mess things up!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best opportunity ever. Make the most of it, i envy you. The most important thing is to be confident.
 
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Just chill out, you'd be pretty hard pushed to **** up in one day.
 
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Originally posted by JSH
Best opportunity ever. Make the most of it, i envy you. The most important thing is to be confident.
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Exactly. Confidence my man. People are generally attracted to (not necessarily in a sexual way) a confident person.
 
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Somtimes i feel nervous and had no fking idea why, then i figured out it was excitement =) Like i thought i was nervous before the first day of school but once it came i blew myself away with my confidence, and i dont think ill ever be nervous about meeting new people again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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