"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cavedweller

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Some of you nerds and geeks (that lurk and post here) need to get up off of the 'puter' and get out there and meet some women..

When you hit on one and she blows you off just say 'NEXT' and move on to the next victim..

BTW, if you throw enough s**** at the wall some of it will stick..

cavedweller
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IRKMAN

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cavedweller said:
Some of you nerds and geeks (that lurk and post here) need to get up off of the 'puter' and get out there and meet some women..

When you hit on one and she blows you off just say 'NEXT' and move on to the next victim..

BTW, if you throw enough s**** at the wall some of it will stick..

cavedweller
true thAT..I´m about to hit the gym. lots of sexy girls to talk 2
 

ken chang

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Agreed. I make it a point to never touch the computer on the weekends. During the weekends, I always do some kind of activity whether it's going out with friends, or trying something new like wall climbing, boxing, or paint ball shooting. This weekend, I will be joining a voice acting seminar. If the girls aren't interesting, at least I will still get some fun out of the activity. Having fun should be the primary goal, I think. Gaming girls during the activity only secondary.
 

everywomanshero

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Considering I've met two strippers and a former dolphins cheerleader online, I'd say the computer isn't all bad :) The only issue is when people have already maxed out their area online and then they just keep wasting time. Once you've cycled all the online chicks, you have to spend a month or so in field and then when you come back there will be new ones ready to go.
 
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