"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Neil Strauss, Style. A video of him.
- Thread starter nishbuk
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ROFLCOPTERS....Originally posted by tristan22
^^^^^^^^^^^^
What are you his spokesperson? There is no hatred in my reply, just mere opinion--if this threatens you, so be it! I do not live vicariously through these individuals, i go out and make my own success! Although i agree that they do write about some interesting things, their methods overcomplicate the act of getting dates. How do you know this guy is getting tons of girls and dates? Having knowledge about a subject and dating any girl of your choosing, are two different scenarios!
I have seen the above mentioned crap methods applied in the field. Mind you, by individuals who post here--and they failed.........MISERABLY. The girls practically tripped and fell trying to escape these guys!
Girls want fun and excitement, not some moron coming up to them and asking them for their female opinion! The 3 second rule, is the only rule i follow. I approach without hesitation, if the chemistry is there and the girl is fun to talk with, i ask for her #--no more, no less.
If you are friends with this guy, i will bet him $1000.00 he cannot get the caliber of girls he says he can in my neck of the woods.
Dude you really dont' know what you are talking about. Style, Ross Jeffries, Mystery, David D, among others were the real pioneers of the online community. What Style has accomplished has been verified, re-verified, documented both on the net and on paper, supported by video, by the many people that have seen him in action, other top PUAs, mASF, Mystery's lounge, fastseduction.com (Formhandle, one of his friends runs fastseduction), journals entries, countless witnesses, and testimonies from the women themselves!
Seriously, go and do some of your own research on the online community and you'll see exactly what the rest of us from seduction lair, and alt.seduction know.
Jon341427
Don Juan
yes, but him putting it on TV will captivate more people then if he had not. eventually it's going to be common ground that this stuff works and all guys will be trying to do it. it's just a matter of time, and when that happens the stuff will stop working!Originally posted by Aaron B
I disagree. Anyone who is determined to change their success with women will find the info. There is too much on the web for them not to.
And a large % of those who know nothing of "our world" are going to read the book but not make any changes in their lives and will still have limited success with women.
The real kicker for men is seeing Neil Strauss's hot girlfriend in the audience. That was some good PR advertising work there for those that needed "proof".Originally posted by Jon341427
yes, but him putting it on TV will captivate more people then if he had not. eventually it's going to be common ground that this stuff works and all guys will be trying to do it. it's just a matter of time, and when that happens the stuff will stop working!
naoi deag se deag
Senior Don Juan
Don't flame on it, just think about it.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
2. I could care less about the success the guys you obviously sweat have!
3. I read the posts here at SS, and the lack of success people are having is apparent. I blame this on lack of approaching and overcomplicating the art of seduction. Guys like Mystery, Ross Jeffries, etc. make money off of gullible individuals much like yourself. You can preach your/their techniques all you want, but the bottom line is, if you don't put in the effort--you aren't going to get dates/laid. Everyone comes here looking for the magic answer, the magic book, the magic video, yet they don't want to explore outside their comfort level and do the work.
4. I have met 30+ people from this board. Individuals who worship and practice the individuals you mentioned. I watched them publicly humiliate themselves (getting cussed out, yelled out, walked away from, etc.) by going up to groups of girls and using those ridiculous scenarios they are told to use. If i would have taped these approaches, i would be a multi-millionaire right now(on comedy alone)............they were that bad! I actually felt sorry for the guys, it was that sad to watch.
5. GUYS: You hold your own answers and you write your own story! Keep approaching and i guarantee the answers and success will eventually come.
6. I see, you are now an AFC-- if you find success outside of the witch doctors indoctrinating techniques. You guys need to find your own identity........REALLY!.
...........if anyone on the board wants to hang out! Shoot me a PM. We'll see who is AFC and who is not!