"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Neil Strauss on the View

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i was just lookin up neil strauss to read some of his articles. i found something funny. he is on the view talking about the openers,negs, and IOIs we all know so well. i have seen pictures but never heard his voice. its not what i expected. also his girlfriend is on the show too. what would you rate her on a scale.

www.panopticist.com

go to that web site and scrole down to the niel strauss interview on the view. click on the high lighted "heres the footage of strauss"

let me know what you think.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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He was on the Jimmy Kimmel show too. These tactics have now went mainstream. I don't know what effect that will have or not on their usefulness, but if they were believed to be effective secret weapons in PU, then it seems he sold out.
 

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i just might go to "chapters" this weekend and take a look at the book, and see what's it all about. i just hope it's not 700 pages.
 

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yeah, i think shes a high 8 or 9. i would have expected a porn star or stripper. buut his girl is pretty hot. The Game is 400 and something pages long. its worth it though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would get the game, but my parents wouldnt let me get it. Im 15 :)
 

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Originally posted by Verbal
yeah, i think shes a high 8 or 9. i would have expected a porn star or stripper. buut his girl is pretty hot. The Game is 400 and something pages long. its worth it though.
She's not even 8 on my scale. Are all woman like this considered hot in the U.S? :rolleyes:
 

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he's a damn good writer. and yes he sold out.

probably my favorite book but I hope it stays cult status.
 

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The book was informative, If not a morality play towards the end.
All in all it kept my beady eyes glued to it.

I watched the interview he gave on The View (I had to shower immediately afterwards to get the sappy s*** washed off!) Not quite what I expected coming from Mysterys' heir apparent.

Destro
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RE:

Like I said I just dont like how its publicized everywhere now. Books like "The Game" should be kept more on the underground circuit I believe not stocked in the shelves at Barnes and Noble and advertised on Prime Time and such.
Imagine someone coming out with a high powered offense and techniques for weaker teams to get an advantage and them some coach decides to learn it, and write a book about it and then go on ESPN promoting it. It should be kept more on the hush-hush, hell even Art of Seduction wasnt that publicized and its a better book IMO. And to watch him sit there and talk about 'negs' and openers on a womans tv show and for Star Jones to say everyone in the audience gets a free copy....whats next the worldwide movie release?
 

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Re: RE:

Originally posted by SeldomSeen
Like I said I just dont like how its publicized everywhere now. Books like "The Game" should be kept more on the underground circuit I believe not stocked in the shelves at Barnes and Noble and advertised on Prime Time and such.
Imagine someone coming out with a high powered offense and techniques for weaker teams to get an advantage and them some coach decides to learn it, and write a book about it and then go on ESPN promoting it. It should be kept more on the hush-hush, hell even Art of Seduction wasnt that publicized and its a better book IMO. And to watch him sit there and talk about 'negs' and openers on a womans tv show and for Star Jones to say everyone in the audience gets a free copy....whats next the worldwide movie release?
This has been discussed to death in other threads. If you're in the game you know he hasn't revealed any "abra cadabra" secrets that's gonna turn a Don't Juan into a Don Juan. Someone made a great analogy in the other thread. The game is like weightlifting it requires lots of effort and dedication. Highly unlikely this will become mainstream.
 
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