"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Neil Strauss makes sense...

JdelaSilviera

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He says that you have to treat women like your little sister.... This is making more and more sense to me.... you should treat them like they are 5, since women are socially retarded.

All those kisses, hughs, and screaming when they see their friends shows their immaturity... just because they start using their vaginas earlier it doesn´t mean they are the adult ones, and we are childish.... Every time I treat one of them like one dumb friend of mine, whom I make fun of, they fall in love... it´s really that easy with many women.. It´s the all concept of ****y and funny... For those who already realized this, good for you :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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& here I thought I was immature because I insist on treating females(even my mother) & some guys like we're all still in pre-school. However its a matter of adjusting the meter to suit who you're dealing with, in my experience, ramping it up with with hotter or more ego inflated chicks works best but toning it down with more plain or intelligent girls is suitable. Its not changing the vibe, its more of finding the right level with who you're dealing with.
 

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Reading Book of Pook at the moment, he says the same thing.
 

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real2 said:
Nothing like treating an intelligent, managerial, independent woman like a pre-schooler... sexual suicide to say the least :whistle:

But for the socially retarded girls, most definite :rockon:
That's what I thought, its something subconscious(for me at least), gotten into some really tight spots because of my mouth but it works on even the brainy women regardless of age. Its shocking to see.

I guess it has something to do with the man doing it & the way he does it. I wouldn't tell just any guy to attempt that sort of thing.
 
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