Ace_McGregor
Don Juan
I was just curious if anyone has seen any of the annihilation method DVDs - if so, what did you think? I know they are hard to find b/c only 400 copies were made.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
4000 for some DVDs if EEfin crazy!! No way they could have been that much..no piece of recreational software is that much...Chase Dat Skuht said:Id like to bump this up and see other peoples opinions. I'm in the process of getting The Annihilation Method, it sounds pretty good to me. He sold the 400 copies for 4 grand each, so they better be good.
Anyway, lets hear some more opinions
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I have seen them and they are not worth $4000 man. Think about it, it's about 10 hours of video for $4000. That works out to $400 per hour. No instruction is worth $400 per hour, well maybe a hooker.Ace_McGregor said:I was just curious if anyone has seen any of the annihilation method DVDs - if so, what did you think? I know they are hard to find b/c only 400 copies were made.
Neil Strauss wrote The Game. He also goes by the nick-name Style. It's an extremely entertaining read and gives a few tips on pick up along the way. This book is definitely worth owning.Jayer said:Sounds like its crap....
Ever.. Who wrote the game?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.