Neighbor. Would you?

[Mazman]

Hi. I was thinking of asking out my neighbor (we live in the same building). We see each other frequently and have some small talk.
We've known each other for several months.

Anyone have experiences with this? Or should I just look elsewhere?

 

[RKTek]

You "can't not" ask her out. If you don't ask her out, you know you'll always wonder "what if..."

As a man, as a DJ, you MUST make the move.

However, you must have NO expectations of success, especially at this point. The time to strike would have been a few days after you first saw her. The fact that you're neighbors may also monkey the works for you, but again, you can't not try.

Ask for her home phone number tonight, and if possible, let us know how it went: good/bad/indifferent.

 

[digitalrat]

I'm in the same situation. An 8 moved about 5 houses down. I have been over and made small talk with her with other friends of hers. I haven't gone for the kill yet though.

I need to think of a place that is fun and not like everybody else that takes their dates to the movies.

 

[Mazman]

Originally posted by RKTek
You "can't not" ask her out. If you don't ask her out, you know you'll always wonder "what if..."

As a man, as a DJ, you MUST make the move.

However, you must have NO expectations of success, especially at this point. The time to strike would have been a few days after you first saw her. The fact that you're neighbors may also monkey the works for you, but again, you can't not try.

Ask for her home phone number tonight, and if possible, let us know how it went: good/bad/indifferent.

I know. It's the neighbor thing that bothers me. Otherwise I'd have no problem. I'll go ahead and do it though.

 

[Umbra]

Would I? When HAVEN'T I?

The only time you can have really serious problems is when she's a roommate. Don't ever get involved with roommates. Neighbors are good.

 

[Player69]

Is she hot?

 

[Mazman]

Originally posted by Player69
Is she hot?

LOL. I actually had no attraction to her when we first met. The more I talked to her though the more attracted I got.

Yeah, I think she's hot.

 

[Player69]

Well, if thats how you get your freak on, go for it! Just make sure not to be the nice guy... which may be an issue if you have seen her a lot for the past few months, and not made any advances yet. Be more spontanious, take charge, and flirty. Don't "ask her out" take her out. She is already comfortable with you. Show her a good time she can remember. If its something rather then traditinal dates, she will be more likely to remember it.

One more question... she isn't a wail is she?

 

[Mazman]

Originally posted by Player69
Well, if thats how you get your freak on, go for it! Just make sure not to be the nice guy... which may be an issue if you have seen her a lot for the past few months, and not made any advances yet. Be more spontanious, take charge, and flirty. Don't "ask her out" take her out. She is already comfortable with you. Show her a good time she can remember. If its something rather then traditinal dates, she will be more likely to remember it.

One more question... she isn't a wail is she?

Wail? You mean whale? Fat? No she's not.

I know I need to make a move soon or else I'll end up being the nice guy next door.