"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I had so much fun negging this girl at the club yesterday.. she is sort of a friend who comes clubbing with us, and last time i got her flirting with me so much that her b/f got mad and left.. :crackup:

this time (last night) i found out about her being older, so that was a good neg theme, plus a bunch of other stuff.. i was just messing with her head the entire night, plus giving her mixed signals on and of on and off..

she was so over me by the time the night was almost over, it wasn't even funny.. she was pretty much begging me to take her home, but unfortunately someone else was staying over so it didnt happen..

next weekend or something.. ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Great u da man negs are great to use

i usually use them on sales women especially in perfume stores

i flirt with them the say what perfume are you wearing... she answers with sumthin and i say i think its to sweet or spicy or even i dont really like that smell this makes them think coz they work in a perfume store but choose really strange smells

try it out guys works with me!!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by 007~JC
Not sure what the point of this thread is. You didn't give any examples!!!!

But here's one I used on this SHB9.8 the other night in high class bar. She was wearing a little silver sparkly dress (very bright). I walked up to her and whispered in her ear..

007: Hey I like your spacesuit. *smirk*

lol

- 007 ~ JC :cool:
And you gave an example - but you didn't give any results! How did she respond?
 

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I crashed and burned on a neg last night

a girl had a sequined top on, sequined all over her chest and I told her "you can come (to my friends hot tub party) but you'll have to find me a pair of sunglasses because those sequins are burning my retinas"

her friend (stupid friends) replied with "whoa, buddy, keep your eyes up here and stop staring at her chest"
 

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Interesting...

This actually works? What's the average IQ of the women on whom negs work? 100ish? I mean individually, not summed up ofcourse :confused:

Still, good going. If you do get to close the deal, i hope she is better in bed than she is at thinking straight :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LoL guys I love you all who use Neghits.
I also love to do it. I used to think that you have to be very careful with neghits but its a very powerful strategy.

I hope you guys know Dave Deangelo's ****y & Funny! Its perfect.

Yesterday I said to a girl who explained me that she didnt do something well:
"Really? Oh but you know that your chances to get me are getting worse now..." With a smile to show her that I am a joking a little bit. And she loved it. She responded with smile and KINO.

I also said: "hey when you're laughing it sounds to me like an opera"
That was a very good one because she found it very funny and the whole evening she touched my knees and tried to hit me softly. I could really feel the flirting mood.

CYA
 

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NEgs work on the smartest and most gorgious women. The smarter, wittier and more secure she is, the better they work. its all about lowering her value.

007: Hey I like your spacesuit. *smirk*

This is more c&F than a neg but it still acomplishes the same purpose.
 

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good to hear neg works for you

but ffs, dont cut other peoples cake, she has a bloody boyfreind, shes not-available and leave her teh hell alone
 

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Originally posted by RockstarPUA
This is more c&F than a neg but it still acomplishes the same purpose.
Most of the examples on this thread are more c&f.

For my money, negs should always be serious.

"Nice top, my mother has one like it" - it's subtle.

You build her up and then throw in a little ambiguity. If you try and come across as funny whilst doing it, the impact of the negative part is reduced and the just thinks you're being an a$$. If you're serious then she starts to wonder if she's dressing too old, maybe you don't find her attractive because she reminds you of your mother, maybe she's started looking old (horror!).

"Interesting hair colour. Is it natural?"

'Interesting'? Is that good or bad? Doesn't it look natural (whether it is or not)?

etc (these examples are taken from, or adapted from archived posts).
 

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
My favourite is when im talking to a SHB, after shes just finished talking - drop this in!

Her: (just finished speaking)
Me: Would you like a tic-tac?

Or when your close to her speaking:

Her: (speaking)
You: ewwwwwwwwww...you just spit on me!

hehehe

Sarge On...
haha, this reminds me of one of my faves.

I've NEVER had this fail. I do it to my buddies too sometimes for kicks. It works best with an HB you've already met and maybe even been on a date or two with.

When you see each other and approach say "Hey! Oh...oh geez I spit RIGHT on you" and point at her chest. Ofcourse she will say "ewww" and look down giving you the perfect opportunity to flick her nose with your pointing finger.

The looks I've gotten from 8's and 9's with that is amazing. Ofcourse they always laugh it off.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Topical neg -"Hey, haven't I seen you on the tv? Wow, yeah that's it - you're that face transplant woman! So how that working out for you? etc."
 

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Originally posted by lordson
good to hear neg works for you

but ffs, dont cut other peoples cake, she has a bloody boyfreind, shes not-available and leave her teh hell alone
Tell it to Jesus....



One of my favourites is this one.. It's great when you are having a conversation with a girl and it's her "turn" to talk and she goes on about it just a liiittle bit longer then usual. When she's done talking and shut up and it's my "turn" to reply, I sit and look her into her eyes and act as if I'm really paying attention to her but I totally shut up and don't say anything. This will make her say something or repeat the last thing she said. That's a great time to kinda "snap" out of it and say "Oh, sorry..I wasn't paying attention. Did you say anything?" with a smirk on your face so she knows you're joking. It's playful and almost everytime she will give you a little punch, laugh and then act a little insulted:) Which ofcourse you apologize for with a small kiss on her cheek or some other "apologetic kino" ;) Push&pull classic!
 
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