"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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neglected legs/back

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I have been working out properly for about 4 years but never trained my legs (this wasnt an excuse because my legs were pretty massive by nature..so I was gonna start working them later and just started...I did procrastinate it too long though) and only trained my back during the first 1 1/2 years or so. About a month ago I finally made the step of working out my legs/back (I wanted to do this waaay sooner but kept on procrastinating for some silly reason). When I looked at myself in the mirror I saw that..you couldnt really say my legs were too skinny for my upperbody (a little more muscular will look better though) I did think though that my back was way too skinny for my upperboody as I never worked it out. Today I took a couple pf pics of myself from the front and from the back and I was surprised as **** when I saw that my back (especially the lats) look pretty damn broad in the pic...This is not an excuse, dont get me wrong I AM gonna keep on working out my legs/back but honestly I mean my back doesnt look exactly as massive as I want it to be but it definetly does look broader/stronger than the bakc of a guy who doesnt work out would..I thought Id have like 2-3 years of catching up to do with my back (though I do know how to work out/eat and wont make the mistakes I made during my first 2 years or so of weight training), but Im pretty confident that Ill only have to work out my back/legs for like 1 year longer than the rest of my body to get where I wanna get.

Now my question is: Is it possible that my back is more muscular than my chest/arms by nature or do you think that I did gain muscle mass on my back because of working out other body parts and eating lots of protein? (my legs didnt really get bigger though)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have more important questions on my mind, Im still wondering though.
 
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