"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Negging to much?

mO 64 StAnG 06

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How much is too much? Lately I've been trying to act like their ******* brother that constantly makes a few light jokes that aren't too mean but get them laughing.

I've had a few call me an ******* joking back, but mabye I am being too much of an *******?

I tease mabye, I dunno, 70% to 90% for the first 5 min on the first convo. with a girl. What's a good ratio? I think I might be over doing it...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

DJ_in_making

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After she starts showing IOI's. You can still tease her but not too rough, you don't want her to get the sense that she's actually winning you over or she's gonna give up.
 
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