"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Negging a PUA-aware girl

AManAnUkeAPlan

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Hi guys, this one is actually funny, it happened to me yesterday.

So, I met this girl in a formal party, and I was seated next to her. I was not really attracted, but we got along really well and had a good laugh, then I took her to the dancefloor and we finished at her hotel room afterwards. No conscious effort was made on my part to get her, it just happened. Fast forward three months, we've had few dates, and a relaxed casual relationship. I'm spinning her along some other girl and keeping myself probing for a third.

I'm with her yesterday at my flat, and she sees a copy of Neil Strauss's book on the shelf. She comments, "hey, I didn't knew you were such a casanova, I read this book a few days ago". Later on we are having a laugh, talking about "isolating and escalating the physical contact", "do you believe in magic spells?" lines and the such, and she asks what did I use with her the night we met:

- Honestly, I didn't do anything, it just happened.
- That's not true, you "isolated" me by dragging me to the dance floor.
- No darling, I do that also with the girls I don't like, I just like dancing. If anything I think you were the one to game me.
- You also gave me the breath mint when we were going outside!
- Well, I knew I probably had a terrible breath after the dinner and the wine and needed one. It would have been rude not to share. I had kissed you already, remember?
- Oh my god, are you telling me that you didn't even try to game me? now you are negging me!

I can wait to find another girl that has read that book, that scenario is too good :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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zekko

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I can wait to find another girl that has read that book, that scenario is too good
Ugh, I think it's awful. But that's why the trend is toward being a natural, all these PUA tricks are being exposed.

I was watching a MeHow video and a girl asked him "Are you like that guy Mystery?". And he was all "Uh, what, who, I don't know what you, I don't know who that....". He had it coming because he kept using that line "Introduce me to your friend, it's the polite thing to do". I think that is a GREAT, great line, but I would never use it because it was in "The Pickup Artist" TV show. I wouldn't want to be caught using canned lines like that.
 

Forty0ztoFreedom

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I think I would just laugh at them and make them seem like losers for knowing about "Pick Up Artistry." Flip that **** around on them.
 
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