"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Negative/Positive People

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This is short and simple advice .

Try to separate people in two groups . NEGATIVE and POSITIVE .

NEGATIVE PEOPLE

  • The ones that make fun of you
  • AMOG'S
  • People that put you on trouble
  • People whos company makes you feel bad
  • Peoples that hate you .
  • People who have got no good intentions towards you
  • People who only try to benefit by staying with you
  • People who influence your mood negatively
  • People who are good with you , but put you down in front of other people .

GREY AREA

  • Friends which are negative in some circumstances
  • Friends who wan't to keep you on their level , dont let you go further

POSITIVE PEOPLE

  • People that make you laugh
  • People that help you when you need them
  • The people you enjoy having around
  • The ones that are available for you , and ready to do anything for you
  • The ones that love you
  • People who cheer you up


Try to separate peoples in these two categories .

Once you have separated , try to be only with positives . And try to avoid negative things and negative peoples .

Grey area people should be given some chances to get better . If they dont , they fall into negative category .



Life should be filled with positivity , and we should avoid negative things .

Once you get rid of negative people and things , youll see great changes in your life .



Enjoy .

DTP
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KillaPetehog said:
I agree with the general idea written here...

but I disagree that other "alphas" are negative influences.

You can learn a lot from them.

Befriend them and make them in your crew. Then take notes.
AMOG has two meanings .

I meant ALPHA MALE OTHER GUY

The guys who show their alphaness hurting you .

Example:TD on The Game
 

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alphas only show their alphas when they detect loserness

like right here,

I detect losers, so I make fun of you
if you were on an equal level, why would I make fun of you, ridioclous

game recognizes game,

you are just not game, but you think you are "Another alpha", in reality, you a chump with a keyboard.
 

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jcap said:
alphas only show their alphas when they detect loserness

like right here,

I detect losers, so I make fun of you
if you were on an equal level, why would I make fun of you, ridioclous
Exactly what im saying .

If you aint alpha enough to backfire , guys like him ^ should be avoided .

Btw , if he's looser , who the fvck are you to make fun of him ?
Do you know how it affects to his confidence ?

Im the leader of my crew and im alpha male of the group , but i never make fun of someone . I have respect for everyone and thats why they respect me.

jcap said:
game recognizes game,

you are just not game, but you think you are "Another alpha", in reality, you a chump with a keyboard.
Was this adressed to me ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yes that would be addressed to you

and no , i do not care abotu his confidence, couldn't care less.

espically on some internet message board
 

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Good post!

Being a more positive person is something I'm working on. I was always a good person but negative so now I'm trying to become more positive and surround myself with positive people.

It's relevant to the badboy/nice guy attraction too. Alot of badboy's are more positive than nice but negative nice guys.

Everybody are attracted to positive people even those with faults (badboys) but as well all know theres alot of grey area.
 

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jcap said:
yes that would be addressed to you

and no , i do not care abotu his confidence, couldn't care less.

espically on some internet message board
Well , i dont feel the need to prove myself to someone who i dont know .

From the words you type , i can see you're someone who barely gets laid .
I can see that you're arrogant man that doesnt know what he's talking .

I can see you like talking trash , you like to raise your level by putting others down . But you're only coming out as arrogant AFC .


A guy who shakes when talking to girls ? ROFL ( i saw your previous thread ).

And you're famous movie star ? Scared from girls ? ROFL

Ill give you the reason why you shake in front of girls . Because you dont have experience with girls . And you're talking to me about Chump with keyboard ?

But dont worry . There is a solution . Work on field and youll get rid of that problem .


Goodbye

PS: I dont feel the need to continue this conversation . Im trying to get rid of negative people :D
Your posts display negativity , loneliness , AFCness . My advice ? Try to be better person in general , try to be positive , try to get best from everyone .

slaog said:
Good post!

Being a more positive person is something I'm working on. I was always a good person but negative so now I'm trying to become more positive and surround myself with positive people.

It's relevant to the badboy/nice guy attraction too. Alot of badboy's are more positive than nice but negative nice guys.

Everybody are attracted to positive people even those with faults (badboys) but as well all know theres alot of grey area.
Thanks brother .

Changing yourself and becoming more positive gives you a lot of benefits .

PEACE
 
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^ :crackup: This thread is awsome.

Go go thread. :D
 
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