are magical... I did my first one unknowingly: there was a girl sitting next to me in class and there were pieces of paper in her hair. So naturally I don't like staring at that **** so I tell her "Hey you got something in your hair..." She becomes embarrassed and then suddenly started talking more. I shifted the conversation to something else and eventually got her number. I think I was discredited the neg-hit because it seemed too player-ish for me but after using it I find that its effect is insane. It is almost like the girl drops her passive aggressive *****iness and warms up to you. I guess I can use this opener on random people in my college classes even if they don't have something in their hair :yes: