are magical... I did my first one unknowingly: there was a girl sitting next to me in class and there were pieces of paper in her hair. So naturally I don't like staring at that **** so I tell her "Hey you got something in your hair..." She becomes embarrassed and then suddenly started talking more. I shifted the conversation to something else and eventually got her number. I think I was discredited the neg-hit because it seemed too player-ish for me but after using it I find that its effect is insane. It is almost like the girl drops her passive aggressive *****iness and warms up to you. I guess I can use this opener on random people in my college classes even if they don't have something in their hair :yes:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Neg-hits
- Thread starter ArcBound
- Start date