I know neg hits are good but i was wondering if you meet a girl and she says somthing about not gaining a certain thing or getting a certain job is it good to say somthing like " maybe they found some1 better" or is it better not to diss them about it.
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
check_mate_kid_uk
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thats not funny its there for nto really a neg hit, i wouldnt say that, i mean the area is not a complete no go zone, but just dont go there with a comment like that, think of a better 1 for that situation.
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Neg hits are for women who think they are the most attractive women in the world. They're meant to kick them off the pedestal they've put themselves on.
A neg hit is an insult disguised as a compliment. Example, "Those are nice shoes, my mother bought a pair like that recently" In other words, her shoes are nice because an old lady you know wears them.
Neg hits are not for women who are trying to better themselves or their lives. When you give a neg hit to a woman who isn't on a pedestal, you just make yourself look like an a55hole.
A neg hit is an insult disguised as a compliment. Example, "Those are nice shoes, my mother bought a pair like that recently" In other words, her shoes are nice because an old lady you know wears them.
Neg hits are not for women who are trying to better themselves or their lives. When you give a neg hit to a woman who isn't on a pedestal, you just make yourself look like an a55hole.
check_mate_kid_uk
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you do have a point there but even on the average girl, you should use some neg hits, show them whats what. Only if she is very shy then do not use any. Neg hits are not just about what you mentioned above, its also to help stop yourself from falling for there tests, and most girls will test.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
man saying my mother has the same shoes as u aint really that much of a neg hit i would take that as a compliment because it means someone else has good taste
- mind u most women h8 other ppl with the same thing as them on.
- mind u most women h8 other ppl with the same thing as them on.check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
well thats because it was not said right, but when you say your grandmum and her freinds all have the same shoes as that, it becomes a neg hitOriginally posted by wildchild
man saying my mother has the same shoes as u aint really that much of a neg hit i would take that as a compliment because it means someone else has good taste