I know neg hits are good but i was wondering if you meet a girl and she says somthing about not gaining a certain thing or getting a certain job is it good to say somthing like " maybe they found some1 better" or is it better not to diss them about it.
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
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check_mate_kid_uk
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thats not funny its there for nto really a neg hit, i wouldnt say that, i mean the area is not a complete no go zone, but just dont go there with a comment like that, think of a better 1 for that situation.
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Neg hits are for women who think they are the most attractive women in the world. They're meant to kick them off the pedestal they've put themselves on.
A neg hit is an insult disguised as a compliment. Example, "Those are nice shoes, my mother bought a pair like that recently" In other words, her shoes are nice because an old lady you know wears them.
Neg hits are not for women who are trying to better themselves or their lives. When you give a neg hit to a woman who isn't on a pedestal, you just make yourself look like an a55hole.
A neg hit is an insult disguised as a compliment. Example, "Those are nice shoes, my mother bought a pair like that recently" In other words, her shoes are nice because an old lady you know wears them.
Neg hits are not for women who are trying to better themselves or their lives. When you give a neg hit to a woman who isn't on a pedestal, you just make yourself look like an a55hole.
check_mate_kid_uk
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you do have a point there but even on the average girl, you should use some neg hits, show them whats what. Only if she is very shy then do not use any. Neg hits are not just about what you mentioned above, its also to help stop yourself from falling for there tests, and most girls will test.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
man saying my mother has the same shoes as u aint really that much of a neg hit i would take that as a compliment because it means someone else has good taste
- mind u most women h8 other ppl with the same thing as them on.
- mind u most women h8 other ppl with the same thing as them on.check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
well thats because it was not said right, but when you say your grandmum and her freinds all have the same shoes as that, it becomes a neg hitOriginally posted by wildchild
man saying my mother has the same shoes as u aint really that much of a neg hit i would take that as a compliment because it means someone else has good taste