"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ethan300zx

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guys are way too gay and needy these days. if you're a needy guy..dont show it. it makes you look like a biotch. keep it to yourself. dont ever show your gf or any chicks you're interested in. it doesnt make you romantic or sensitive. it makes you look weak. one of my favorite quotes from the "godfather"...from brando to pacino...to paraphrase..."women and children are allowed to be weak...not men". if i was a chick and dated ssome dude that always called me, did baby voices, etc. i would think.."my bf is a fcking homo". guys should act like guys..not like hillary duff. if you're a guy and have used any of these in an email, IM, xanga post, etc NOT in a joking or saracastic fashion......yay, teehee, *sigh*, *giggle*, keke, muah, : P, zippety doo dah, etc...please slap yourself for being feminine.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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you are pretty much spot on, but then you loose some of the credit for the example of it, not only did oyu just give osme email examples rather then real acprch ones, they examples you gave where poor.

basicly just be a man

apart from the examples well you where spot on, if i didnt already know this i think i would be very gratfull for this.
 
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its OKAY to use them on computer, but in real life if you do any of these girly talk stuff, you = gay
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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