Reality check here, I would suspect he’s moved on by now considering his ban was 4 years ago and this resurrected thread is almost 5 …
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Needy behavior - she says she's doesn't want nothing atm
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
TheGambino
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Fauck b1tches get money
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You need to invent a pretext to invite her to your place. Otherwise she probably feels like if she comes over then you'll be expecting sex.
It's better if you say "I'll make dinner for you or "we can watch a movie" etc. That way there's less pressure.
In any case her replies are really low interest.
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In all honesty, shouldn't every girl know that going over to a guys house means he's going to try to have sex with her.
Even worse is if he doesn't make the move and is just boring and dishonest about it. Nobody is fooling anybody by pretending that's not what's on his mind.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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The phones all have a block and delete function. execute and get her hotter younger tighter sister.
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Yes but modern women are retards who want plausible deniability. Rant about girl boss and wants kids at geriatric pregnancy.
It's not up for debate. Comply or bye.
Additionally most men today are so low T they don't make a move.
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She knows, of course. But the point is that having a pretext takes the pressure off. It's like giving her an out.
And it's not dishonest because both of you know the real reason.