"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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needs tips on how to last longer

escobar04

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the other night the inevitable happened, I lasted less than 5 minutes and then coulndt get back up for like 20 monites

the second time I lasted less than 20

any tips on how to last longer or will it come with experience

thnaks fellas
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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take deep breaths and stop thinking of sex. Try to focus on something more boring like baseball. Focus on all the rules. On Strikes balls, home runs, RBIs, innings, all the stats
 

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using a condom makes you feel less sensation. even if i wanted to bust, on a rubber it would take me alot of time.
 

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Do a search. this topic comes up 13423412312 times a week.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Slow down even stop and let it build up again. Make sure when you kiss her and keep her entertained.
 

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rub one out before you go out with the girl, ALWAYS do this when you think you're going to **** her for the first time. **** them good the first time and they will want more. last a few minutes and they wont.
 

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I was reading a e-book called "penis of steel" and they gave some pretty good tips.
1. jack off and find your point of no return, thats the feeling u get when you know your about to come... now this takes practice but keep jacking off and remember the point of no return.
2. When you are jacking off and you get the point of no return feeling just completely stop and pull out, you can either think of something else or squeese your rod hard, when you are doing it with the girl... just stop and pull out and tell her to give you a second or use that as a excuse to change positions.
3. Dont think about it so much, in your head play a song and dance to it on beat. I personally play a song in my head, and talk dirty to her.

This is my 2 cents and it might not work for everyone, but it has helped me out a bit, so good luck
 

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Start and Stop- about 5 secs before you feel that you're going to ejaculate, pull out, and let the sensation dissapate.

Get one off- Before you have intercourse, just get one or maybe 2 off, (do it quickly).

Condom- Reduces sensation but be sure to stop if you feel one coming.

Practice- You can practice. When you feel that you're about to take a piss, squeeze and use your muscles to control urine, to when you feel like you want to go ahead and let it go. Or you can just jack off, and learn when to stop and start again.

Good Luck :cool:
 

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rub one out before you go out with the girl, ALWAYS do this when you think you're going to **** her for the first time. **** them good the first time and they will want more. last a few minutes and they wont.

This will help you on more then one level. Besides lasting longer, it makes the desire to 'get some' go down some too;this is a good thing.

When guys are horny (which is all the time), they tend to do things out of character to get some pu$$y, their emotions take over, start doing wussy things.

By removing this desire, you don't care 'as much' about getting any and it's easier to remain cool and laid back.

Hope that made sense.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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flex your abs and think of broken glass.
 
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