"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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needs some advice for tonight

Diesel_Power

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Im going to a house party tonight and I just need a few tips.

Basically alot of the guys there are old friends of mine who don't really seem to like me much anymore. I haven't seen them in awhile because of College, etc. Basically they wanted to keep smoking pot and play video games all day in their basements while I choose to improve on myself and find other things to do. This pissed them off and today they ar still very bitter about it.

I know that the second I get into that house they're all gonna start insulting me infront of everybody based on the choices I made. Making fun of my new clothes and how im going to the gym now.

I just need to know how I should react once I get to the party. Play it cool and just laugh about it? Leave? I could try to ignore them but they tend to be the center of the party.

Oh yeah and they are all major ****blockers! If I start talking to a girl at a party and getting close to her, they'll come up and start talking trash about me infront of her. Or come in between us.

These idiots idea of impressing a girl is getting piss drunk and lying on the floor laughing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PleasureKing

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they are jealous of you then. just laugh and brush it off because this shouldnt bother you. go up and talk to girls, be confident, have no insecurities. if you get ****blocked, keep your cool, because you know you can always continue with her once they leave. besides, once you get #closes, your job is done.


make it your '07 resolution to make new friends from your college. that way, your peers will be on the same level as you (socially and by class)
 

Diesel_Power

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Another quick question. Should I be one of the first, or last people to arrive at the party?
 
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