"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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need your opinions regarding clothing I bought

Mrpua

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Hi guys
this is a continuation of my post from last week. To summarize: I dont know anything about clothes and fashion. I went shopping with this guy and he told me to buy these. They are all rag and bone brand.

I need to know if I should keep them or return them. I am going to post the pictures and tell you the price. I wanted to know if I could buy something just as good at old navy/Ross/Marshalls.

oh ya, you're going to ask "what's the purpose, where are you going to wear them" it's for going out at nights and talking to girls, you know, bars, on the street, at the restaurant



$60. return or keep?


$75. mine is darker than this. return or keep?


$75. return or keep?

Thank you guys
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mrpua

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The first and last are just over priced t-shirts. Return them.

The second I might keep if it's quality material, fits great and I feel good wearing it.

If you don't love it like that, return that too.

The most important thing is that you feel and look like a million bucks wearing it, even if it's a $10 shirt.
Hi,

The problem is, how I feel is biased by 1) the price and 2) other people's opinions.
Before you said these are just regular shirts, I thought "wow, these are so cool and stylish, I feel so good wearing them knowing that I didn't buy them from TJ Max" but now that you said they are nothing special, my opinion of the shirts changed.
 

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Dude it's a shirt.

Return all of those. They're stylish but not $60-$75 stylish. At that price range, you should be buying jackets, hoodies, pants, or blazers. I buy Levis jeans which ranges from $40-$60.

Shirts I buy for anything under $20 unless it's unique to an artist or something.
 
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