"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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muzicfreak2k3

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Okay guys... so heres the situation. I am 16.... and a virgin.... and hopppefully will change that very soon ;] But the only worry that I have is that if the girl asks me if I'm a virgin how to respond..... any ideas on what u guys think is best ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ye yeah

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depends,if you dont know the girl and its a random one night stand,id say im not a virgin,but if you know the girl involved best to tell the truth,otherwise you will eventually get caught out lieing,cheers
 

SlyD4rK

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why lie?
be proud that your a virgin.

once at football practise as a freshmen in highschool, i went over to the sideline to puke. my coach said "whatever your going to do, do it good!"

if your gonna beat everyone out and rise to the top. do it with honor and pride.
if your happen to lose to everybody and fall down in the dust, stand back up....do it with honor and pride. :box: go get 'em

i tell girls straight up that im a virgin, with confidence. and they respect me for it. contrary(sp?) to popular belief, not being a virgin doesnt make you any 'cooler' thats all based on individual intrepretation anyways.

just my 2 cents
 

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none of her business. she shouldn't really care. the only thing that should be in question is whether or not she is. with the high rate of stds among american girls, i would recommend that you take her to a doctor first.
 

Distant Light

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Never say your a virgin

Saying your a virgin can subcommunicate that "You don't have any girls that like you" because you're a virgin still. I got a friend who told a girl he was a virgin and its been 8 months and there still at square one he still thinks he is going to fuvk her. I usually would go the C&F route on questions because thats just the way I am.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mpimpin

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there are other threads pertaining to this same question try a search next time!!!
 

donjuanjovi

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Just tell her you're a virgin. You're only 16. I didn't lose mine until 17, it's nothing to be ashamed of at that age. Now if you were in your twenties than I would consider lieing about it.
 
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