"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ HOSSIX

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My Girlfriend And I Got Into An Arguement.

We Didnt Talk for 2 weeks.

Appology Time Came, And We Forgave And Forgot.

But...

She doesnt seem to be the kinda girl she used to be (always put me ahead over everyone else, called me just to say how much she missed me, and so on).

She Still Likes Me, And I Like Her.

But Im Starting From Scratch Again.

She Seems To Be Playing Hard 2 Get.

Trying 2 Get Me Jealous Over Other Guys.

But So Far Ive Kept My Emotions Under Control And Have Tried Building A Higher Social Status To Show Competion For The Prize(me).

Is The Way She Acting Normal?

How Should I Approach This?

(Our relationship span= 1 yr)

Mucho Appreciated 4 Any Advice

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wiesman44

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we don't know enough about you and your girlfriend to give you any adequate advice on this. I don't know her personally so I cant tell you how normal this behavior is.
 

DJ HOSSIX

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Her Normal Behavior Before Our Arguement Was:

Outgoing
Very Caring
Fun
Hated Drama
Wasnt So Much Into Online Chatting
Hated When I Tried To Get Her Jealous.

But Now Its Like Shes Trying To Get Me Jealous.

When Ever We Talk She Always Says Hold On Some One Texted Me.

Puts Me On Hold.
 

DJ HOSSIX

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Her Friend Also Told Me That She Thinks Im Not Interested In Her No More.

But How Should I "bring the mood back".

Thank You
 
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