Need your input! I'm stumped!!

[HiMyNameIs]

Hey everyone, this is the first time I do this. Usually I know what to do, but this situation has me stumped.

A few days ago I walked into a parking lot and saw a note on my car. A girl had backed into me and left me her name and number. (Good person, right?) So I called her and told her not to worry about calling the insurance company and we'll handle this between us, as I was very appreciative of her honesty. I got a quote on how much it would be and called to tell her. She said it wouldn't be a problem.

So curiosity got the best of me and I looked her up on Facebook. WOW. She's drop dead gorgeous. I have the confidence, I'm not worried about that. my question involves tactics.

How am I supposed to accept a large check from her for the damages AND ask her out at the same time? I'm stumped.

Help me out fellas!

 

[Uncharted]

OK just cause she is hot doesn't mean she doesn't have to pay for your accident, bro.

I would get an estimate and make sure she meets you in person with the check. Then when you are together, play it off like it's no big deal. Talk about whatever - just keep the conversation going. Then say something like "hey what are you doing now? want to get some coffee/food/whatev"

Then go from there. Either way, cash that check. Don't let her hot ass cost you some cash!!

 

[NewAndImproved]

Didn't this happen in Entourage??

But yeah, do what the above guy said.

 

[nroug7]

OK just cause she is hot doesn't mean she doesn't have to pay for your accident, bro.

I would get an estimate and make sure she meets you in person with the check. Then when you are together, play it off like it's no big deal. Talk about whatever - just keep the conversation going. Then say something like "hey what are you doing now? want to get some coffee/food/whatev"

Then go from there. Either way, cash that check. Don't let her hot ass cost you some cash!!

This.

And really, it is no big deal.
not at all.
NOT.
A.
DEAL
Get that stuck in your head, no girl is "Drop-dead Gorgeous"
They are all hiding some nasty flaw, whether it be their superiority complex or that they frequently cheat on people.

 

[BeDJ]

Women are not held accountable for anything anymore. Even worse, men are encouraging that.

Fυck.

 

[HiMyNameIs]

Wait wait. I think you guys misunderstood. I'm getting that check from her, absolutely. I just said she didn't have to get her insurance involved. So she's just gonna pay for it out of pocket. I was asking about after this, is there a not so creepy way of asking her out? I know she'll probably be a little down and out about having to fork over all that money but oh well. I'm just looking for the correct approach. Thanks.

 

[Plutoman]

"Hey, even though you did manage to dent up my car, you seem pretty cool - let's go grab some coffee and chat." - after a bit of conversation.

Does it matter? Just play it casual and work it like any other girl. She's not unique, it's just an opportunity to chat with a cute girl, without having to approach her cold.

 

[GotED?]

I see you already 'pedestaled' her.

You are on your way to gettin' Oneitis and torn apart from the inside out.

No woman is worth pedestaling - you sound like you have never had a HB8+ and higher.

Those men on here who have reached the Holy Grail of HB 8+ knows to walk on fire because those hotties are more seriously fooked up in the head and emotionally.

Good luck.


Exodus

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I have reached maximum post so here's your reply to you being lost completely:


'She's drop dead gorgeous'

You are already blinded.

Expect nothing out of her - and if something happens, then you will make your next move. Right now you are putting so much expectations on getting her just because she is 'hot'.

Men who have gotten 'hot' before knows (just like a previous poster said), that there is usually something seriously fooked up about the woman because that typically comes with 'hot' packages.

Just be careful and guard your expections and not get hurt.

Exodus

 

[HiMyNameIs]

I see you already 'pedestaled' her.

You are on your way to gettin' Oneitis and torn apart from the inside out.

No woman is worth pedestaling - you sound like you have never had a HB8+ and higher.

Those men on here who have reached the Holy Grail of HB 8+ knows to walk on fire because those hotties are more seriously fooked up in the head and emotionally.

Good luck.


Exodus

You lost me. Completely.