"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need your input guys

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AlwaysSmile

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Hey guys I've been lurking around here for a while and it's really turning my life around. Here's my first post :p

What would it generally mean if a girl gets pissy around a guy or when a girl always kinda challenges you in conversations? Is it some sort of a **** test or a sign that she's not interested?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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These two are two opposite things. Pissy one is often that you're her emotional tampon, aka her friend. Second one is a test. She challenges your meanings etc. Just pass them by being unreactive, funny and/or stand by your own opinion.

No need to be shy and write in 3rd person. I like your username tho.
 
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AlwaysSmile

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Yeah I think the second one's the one i meant. She's always trying to bring me down for some reason.

and thanks lol
 
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