Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Edit: Look at it like this; you made your intentions known. Good for you. She rejected you. But she didn't string you along for ego/validation purposes like some attention wh0res would do. She did you a favor. Don't waste any more time pursuing her.
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She went out of state with you and you choose to keep your distance? Are you serious? Search for my thread: Always Fondle A Beech, read over and over and internalize it.
If I were the girl, I'd have hit you with the LJBFs too.
You went on few dates and things were amazing? What does that mean? You fcuked her every date? You didn't fcuk her but you had "an awesome" conversation?
If you didn't fcuk her with all those times you spent with her then youve lost out on that punani.
Anyways we live and learn.
When you go NC, you stay NC.
There's a negative chance you'd fcuk this girl, so keep it moving.
Find other girls and please research this forum so you don't make similar mistakes.
Stop looking for a relationship. Have fun with them. If it leads to a relationship then fine but stop actively aiming for a relationship.