"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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need your help

djali

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hello,
i've benefited your materials on your website very much.i'm 24 and studying soft ware and i've a good job with good prestige.
i had a question and that's why i'm writing to you.i used to have a gf (very beautiful and attractive she is a flight attendant) for 3 months ,6 months ago she left me and returned to her last bf.i should say that they were friends for 3 years and when i got to know her she was dumped and trying to deal with it.at the time she used to tell me that she was trying to forget her bf and she needed my help.but as soon as her bf returned she left me and the relationship was cut for 6 months completely (we were not in touch at all) .. 2 weeks ago i sent her a wrong text and immidiatly expressed my sorrow of sending her the wrong msg but she grabed the oportunity to apologize for her attitude in our relationship and let me know tht she had dumped her bf and has made her mind to leave him for ever.after sending and getting some texts i set a date we had a lot of fun and we starting dating again after 6 months,at the end of one of these dates i told her i want her back in my life as my gf and she accepted.
i should say after considering it more carefully and reveiwing our relationship in the past cautiously i sent her a text and told her that we could be good friends but not good gf and bf and asked her to forget about that sort of relationship.we've had some other dates and i see on the one hand i dont want to be manipulated and on the other hand i cant have just a simple relationship with her ,what should i do?your guide can help me so much.

thanks so verry much.waiting for your help.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ready123

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figure out what you want first - relationship, fvcking, or platonic friend? no one on this board can figure this out for you

figure out explicitly what you want, then ask for advice
 

EFFORT

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Sounds messy to me. Why not just keep her as a fb and work on your game so you can get a better girl friend than this?
 
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