Need your guys opinion.... on ex-g/f

[Bourne]

Hello guys.

Please go to this link and help me with your opinions. I posted this on Mature forums and I really need your help assessing the situation about my ex-gf who I broke up with.

I don't mean to spam and please don't delete or lock this.

I just really need all the opinions and advice I can get.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=96079

Thank you.

 

[frivolousz21]

This is the best thing that will ever happen to you.


dont go back to her.

she is a complete joke.

you can do better for yourself.

good luck

 

[Warlord]

- Few facts about our relationship:
I’m 26, she is 21
We have fought almost every week for past 8 months.
She is very insecure and blames me for a lot of stuff
She was very loving and caring
She flipped out over Maxim magazine that I started to receive for free, for some reason
She flipped out when she found out I masturbated once every blue moon.
Sex only in missionary
Sex only 1-2 a week if I was lucky
List goes on[/I]


Whenever you're in a relationship, always weigh the pros and cons, if they equal.. then it's an iffy issue, if however it is not equal and the bad parts outweigh the good parts, you should reaccess your relationship. From your list, I see only one good part out of a lot of bad parts.

I know lots of guys that are willing to be with a girl that is beautiful, but the rest of her is : drama queen, b1tch, childhood rape problems, flirtatious, boring in bed, etc. I wonder why would these guys put so much energy into one girl who only has one good part. It's like owning a Ferrarri and having to pay almost 50% of your salary every month to it when you could've owned a Honda Accord that's more reliable, lasts longer, more comfortable and only cost you 15% of your salary.

 

[backbreaker]

if she has all of thoose problems, why do you want her?

 

[speedo_meme]

tell her you will act like her boyfriend if she acts like your girlfriend. Too late for that now I assume. Shoulda brought a girl friend with you too.

By the way, what's up to all you mofos I hadn't seen in a while.....

 

[Bourne]

Yeah, you guys are right, I know.

Just right now I need a swift kick of reality in the balls. Emotions are affecting my decision making and I need objective view on this.

Hardest night was last night, where I actually broke down.

I haven't contacted her and plan not to.

There were alot more negatives then positives. It wasn't even 3-1 ration.

 

[speedo_meme]

has she contacted you at all?

 

[Bourne]

Yes.
- First night, she texted me "I'm so angry"
- Earlier this week after 5 days on Tuesday she saw me having a casual conversation with my ex of 5 years - very friendly, as to how you been on myspace.com
wrote me a message,
"I can't believe you. You couldn't remove me from your life fast enough and add your ex back in.
Classy"
- After that she took all pictures off of us on facebook (similar to myspace, but for students)

So in short yes, she tried, sort of.

 

[Bourne]

- After that she took all pictures off of us on facebook (similar to myspace, but for students)
of.

I guess this part hurt me the most last night, where I broke down. Or perhaps it was the last thing that made me break down.

 

[Bourne]

Thanks for your feedback guys.

If anyone else can chime in.