"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need your guy's help with getting fit!

noodle

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Alright well first off let me give a little background info about myself:

I'm 15 years old, male. 5'4 in hieght and i'm a scronny guy weighing in at 115 lbs.

My goals:
-Get more fit & active
-Gain muscle mass


How I will achieve these goals:
First off let me tell you that doing heavy wieght lifting is a "no no" right now as I am short and my bones are still growing.

I just got a job so I got some money to spend on light equipment to use at home.

The Plan:
Fitness & Activity
I plan on buying a annual pass to my recreation centre to swim every two days at least. I've heard that swimming uses almost every muscle in your body so its a good start. To get to the place I plan on either biking or running there.

I also plan on purchasing some light dumbells (10-20 lbs) to get my biceps back in shape.
I'm looking around for an eliptical trainer, treadmill, or excersise bike so i can work my legs. (which one is most efficient? other suggestions?)

My legs are taken care of and I'll do push-ups and lift some bells to get my arms in shape. Swimming will help alot too! :rockon: But any other suggestions would be great!

Now for the middle of my body (abs, pexes etc.) I really have no idea how to get these in shape either than to do sit ups. Any suggestions?

Any suggestions? Tips on training? Diet? Any help would be greatly appreciated. I will post progress pics of my body when I start training.

Thanks alot guys, I look forward to this training with your help and guidance. Thanks! :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alkali

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If you don't want to use free weights try machines. Less tension on your precious bones.

That's a myth by the way, I remember being freaked out about stunting my growth when I was fifteen.

My friend's convinced me to work out as well as drink and I'm fine.

I'm 6'1 and a hair away from 6'2. I'm pretty sure I'll be the tallest in my family (Papa's is 6'3.)

That is until my little brother catches up, he's a monster (5'9 at 14)
 

noodle

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Alkali said:
If you don't want to use free weights try machines. Less tension on your precious bones.

That's a myth by the way, I remember being freaked out about stunting my growth when I was fifteen.

My friend's convinced me to work out as well as drink and I'm fine.

I'm 6'1 and a hair away from 6'2. I'm pretty sure I'll be the tallest in my family (Papa's is 6'3.)

That is until my little brother catches up, he's a monster (5'9 at 14)
How tall were you when you were 15? How old and how tall are you now?

I basically thought wiegthlifting would stunt my growth because thats what my parents have told me. My unlce and cousins who are bodybuilders also say it will stunt my growth. But i will do more research...and ask some of the people at the gym about this topic.

Swimming is excellent cardio, but, keep in mind that swimming two days per week may slow your progress in building muscle mass. Work with it and see what happens.
How will is slow my progress? Wouldn't it build my muscles?

Also, I'm very new to all this wieghtlifting stuff so i don't know any of the terms. What are reps? sets? and deadlifting?
 

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Alkali said:
If you don't want to use free weights try machines. Less tension on your precious bones.

That's a myth by the way, I remember being freaked out about stunting my growth when I was fifteen.

My friend's convinced me to work out as well as drink and I'm fine.

I'm 6'1 and a hair away from 6'2. I'm pretty sure I'll be the tallest in my family (Papa's is 6'3.)

That is until my little brother catches up, he's a monster (5'9 at 14)
Maybe you mean your brotehr is wide, because I remember being about 5'9 at 14. I'm 6' now. I don't consider myself a monster. I consider myself beyond lanky.
 

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Alright thanks Epsi for clearing that up. My short-term goal right now is to basically get my body in shape and fit. Then I will start to pack on my muscles and become bulk.

I'm basically a couch patatoe right now. The only sport I do right now is dowhill mountain biking but I only do that once in a while.


This weekend I'm going to go out and buy the annual pass for the recreation centre. It has a gym there too so i'll check it out. I'm going to Sportchek and buying some comfortable excercise clothing (under armour perhaps?), some good running shoes and some new swimming goggles.
I'm also thinking of taking up Hapki-do (martial arts).

I'm actually pretty excited about all this. But we'll see if I will be able to commit to it all. You guys are my primary motivation right now. Thanks alot for all the help so far.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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noodle said:
I basically thought wiegthlifting would stunt my growth because thats what my parents have told me. My unlce and cousins who are bodybuilders also say it will stunt my growth. But i will do more research...and ask some of the people at the gym about this topic.
Just google it. Don't ask jerks in the gym who probably really don't have any idea outside of "i heard somewhere." I've seen this come up a number of times and looked it up myself. It's a myth.

noodle said:
Alright thanks Epsi for clearing that up. My short-term goal right now is to basically get my body in shape and fit. Then I will start to pack on my muscles and become bulk.
Okay, hit the gym... learn technique for the lifts and lift light at first. You'll start to kick your metabolism into gear, get your joints ready for heavier loads, and teach your body/nervous system to obey your commands.

Lifting just the bar isn't even a bad idea until you get the techniques down.
 

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Alkali said:
My friend's convinced me to work out as well as drink and I'm fine.
My friends tried to convince me to smoke, do drugs, drink, jump off a bridge, I chose not to listen to them, and i'm fine. lol.

Just your quote is funny.
 

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Alright thanks Epsi. I'm reading about diet and supplements now. Can anyone explain what deads are?
 

cuzza

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A deadlift. Google it. Excellent exercise.
(Which I'm not performing)
 

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chuck taylors are awesome for squatting and deadlifting. and they're cheap
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MrS

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Heavy lifts don't stunt growth.
 
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