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Need Your Advice With A Girl I Like In My Art Class Please

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Alright so I started school last week on Thursday and I have a 3D art class for my last period and there is this girl that looks really hot to me her names Gabby.. So then I was there and waiting for class to begin and she walks in class in a rush because she did not wanted to be last I guess. So she walks right behind me where I’m sitting down and bumps into me my accident. Then class ends and she walks right in back of me while I was exiting the building (class). Then she says I’m sorry for bumping into you. Then I was like its ok. Then we split and didn’t see her anymore until the next day. So I was like OMG I’m so dumb I should of said something better! So anyways I always look behind me were she sits down and I take a quick peek to look at her and she’s never looking at me. Only twice we made eye contact real fast in class that’s about it. Oh I forgot she sometimes exits out of the building (class) with me in the end. Plus I don’t know if she has a BF so how do I find out when I do talk with her? So today I was talking to my friend at lunch about it and told him the story ant etc. So he says to just wait until we do art and when everyone is walks everywhere and keeping busy to go and ask her for help? But maybe I thought you guys can could come up with something better or in your advice. Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I usually just ask around. Of course if a girl thinks you are interested, and you look like me, then it's your lucky day.

Well actually, I see some chicks I am interested in, and I see them n the hall, with there BFs. lol.

But then again, BF's aren't a problem. lol.

Well I know this one girl, and she is really shy, and seems really unconfident, so I son't know how to talk to her.

I mean she's pretty, not exactly HOT. But you know, a nice girl.

Anyway I try to talk to her, and then I don't know what to say, because she is different then my regular girl. lol.

I guess you might feel the same?

But yeah don't C & F too much, if she is not your average girl. I mean I don't know, but you said she looks hot to you, which kind of fits this girls description.

You should know what to do. There is no rush.
 
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