"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need Your Advice With A Girl I Like In My Art Class Please

Mr. Capone-E

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Alright so I started school last week on Thursday and I have a 3D art class for my last period and there is this girl that looks really hot to me her names Gabby.. So then I was there and waiting for class to begin and she walks in class in a rush because she did not wanted to be last I guess. So she walks right behind me where I’m sitting down and bumps into me my accident. Then class ends and she walks right in back of me while I was exiting the building (class). Then she says I’m sorry for bumping into you. Then I was like its ok. Then we split and didn’t see her anymore until the next day. So I was like OMG I’m so dumb I should of said something better! So anyways I always look behind me were she sits down and I take a quick peek to look at her and she’s never looking at me. Only twice we made eye contact real fast in class that’s about it. Oh I forgot she sometimes exits out of the building (class) with me in the end. Plus I don’t know if she has a BF so how do I find out when I do talk with her? So today I was talking to my friend at lunch about it and told him the story ant etc. So he says to just wait until we do art and when everyone is walks everywhere and keeping busy to go and ask her for help? But maybe I thought you guys can could come up with something better or in your advice. Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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08aisaac

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I usually just ask around. Of course if a girl thinks you are interested, and you look like me, then it's your lucky day.

Well actually, I see some chicks I am interested in, and I see them n the hall, with there BFs. lol.

But then again, BF's aren't a problem. lol.

Well I know this one girl, and she is really shy, and seems really unconfident, so I son't know how to talk to her.

I mean she's pretty, not exactly HOT. But you know, a nice girl.

Anyway I try to talk to her, and then I don't know what to say, because she is different then my regular girl. lol.

I guess you might feel the same?

But yeah don't C & F too much, if she is not your average girl. I mean I don't know, but you said she looks hot to you, which kind of fits this girls description.

You should know what to do. There is no rush.
 
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