"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need Work

WORKEROUTER

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Right now I am pretty much f*cked in terms of getting work. I am not getting hours I need from my job, and it's taking a while to find another job (even a minimum wage one!)

Any advice for getting some work? I need some money to pay for my living expenses, and I am not too picky as to the kind of job.

I was thinking of construction...do they hire college students for part-time work?

Anyone else in a similair situation? Any ideas or advice??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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diablo

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Any advice for getting some work? I am not too picky as to the kind of job.
  • Walk into a business.
  • Get an application.
  • Fill it out.
  • Hand it to the manager.
  • Repeat process in as many places as necessary.
 

Coolage

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Now, that's some advice. You might just want to call if there are openings.


A lot of bars and restaurants need extra help for the summer.
 

spider_007

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ya but, you got to make them think THAT YOU ARE THE ONE THEY ARE LOOKING FOR. can't have the "i don't give a fvuck" attitude when you go there. You got to kiss some ass.....untill you move up in the chain.
 

Gus

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A lot of bars and restaurants need extra help for the summer.
I have a lot of friends that work in restaurants / bars...they say summer is the slowest time of the year (it sucks because you don't get as much tips). So try not to get a restaurant job.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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splinterkb

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Its gonna be pretty hard for you to find a job at this time in the summer. Most companies that are hiring part time find the jobs in the spring, so they aren't in panic when it gets busy in the summer time. You can check the local newspaper classifieds, or just walk in to as many places as you can think of and ask if they're hiring, and if they are, get an application. Its as simple as that.
 
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