"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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need words of encouragement

Piers Nivens

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Been seeing this beauty for a while, saw her at her workplace and hard to find her outside. We had a small chat once, very high IOIs

Today I am going into her workplace and telling her to give me her number.

Im gonna say, after small chat:

"Hey listen, why dont u write down ur number and we'll talk later. Meetup sometime and do something fun" and hand her the piece of paper. Once she writes it I am gonna also say "write your name as well" even tho we both know each others names. Should I say the write name part?

Is thay good enough?


I need words of encouragement, like why I should just go and so it and u know, why I will eegret if I dont etc..

first time number closing a girl at her work, so im nervous

thanks everyone :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The positives of giving this a shot out-weight the negatives. Go for it. Just do it. If you do it enough, going up to chicks will be nothing to you at all, except for pure opportunity to learn, grow, and have fun.

When in there, look her in the eyes, have a cool, casual conversation, and be fun and funny if you can. Do not forget to smirk while looking into her eyes. Like a ****y smirk.

After a few minutes of this, casually say "write your number and name down so we can meet up and chill" while you are simultaneously giving her the piece of paper and pen. Do this with a smirk.

If she doesn't give you the number, then it's either because she's not interested or it looks bad at work. No big deal. There are plenty of chicks dying to get your attention, so don't sweat it.

If you don't do it you will regret it because you will feel like a weak-minded p*ssy chump. Just do it and you'll realize that it's no big deal.
 

Piers Nivens

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Ok I went

she wasnt there today lol -__- I was so confident, even though breathing got a little short but confident never the less

Any more advice for the next attempt?
 
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