"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need Wingmen in the ATX - Austin, Texas !!!

TxCowboy

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Holla or PM me if you wanna dj here. I usually go downtown, Grahams, Midnight, North Side bars, and a few places on the east side ....

-L8rs
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AsianPlayboy

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I thought there was a pretty active lair in Austin run by GameTrane, Herbal and TowerT?

Anyways, LOVED Austin last time I was there. Got a handjob in the restroom from a blonde, fake titty personal fitness trainer. That Warehouse district and 6th street are insane amounts of fun, hotties, and AMOGs.
 

Friendly Otter

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Dang, I was over in Texas a few years ago, visiting a buddy who did his thesis there. Don't have any reason to go there anymore, but would have been fun to have wingmen to visit in another country! When I was in France for a year, it was always a good conversation starter when a girl heard my accent and asked where I was from. Perhaps it would have been the same in Texas.

Used to know an American guy who was staying in a dorm here in Sweden; good-looking, outgoing - I remember a dorm party where he had a bruise on his cheek, because he had recently been in a fight with a guy who deserved it. He simply smiled when he told the story. Goodlooking, happy-go-lucky American guy who had been in a fight - guess if the girls were fascinated? Come over here, Texans, I'll be your wingman, guarantee we'd have some luck. :)
 

smoke city

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thats a nice offer there otter -- swedish girls have quite a reputation over here :yes: fellas if we're smart we'll take him up on it!
 

reyalp

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Friendly Otter said:
Dang, I was over in Texas a few years ago, visiting a buddy who did his thesis there. Don't have any reason to go there anymore, but would have been fun to have wingmen to visit in another country! When I was in France for a year, it was always a good conversation starter when a girl heard my accent and asked where I was from. Perhaps it would have been the same in Texas.

Used to know an American guy who was staying in a dorm here in Sweden; good-looking, outgoing - I remember a dorm party where he had a bruise on his cheek, because he had recently been in a fight with a guy who deserved it. He simply smiled when he told the story. Goodlooking, happy-go-lucky American guy who had been in a fight - guess if the girls were fascinated? Come over here, Texans, I'll be your wingman, guarantee we'd have some luck. :)
Sweet. I'll go get a passport
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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