need to Regain upper hand!

[Pimpster]

Alright, i've had this girl for almost 2 months now. At first, i stood my ground, and was a challenge. I'm still a challenge but i feel like i'm losing some of the upperhand. I tell her i wanna go, she says please stay for 15 more mins (sad face). Then i say fine, only because i don't like seeing you sad. I know this is sooooo AFC/wussy.
Any hints on what to do in this type of situation??
And HOW do i regain the upperhand!?
thanks +
Don't flame

 

[bludb0i]

have a backbone you can make your own decisions. this one wasn't really that bad but just don't let it slowly turn you all whipped. It started happening to me also but sometimes you still gotta be callin the shots.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Dude, just don't do that any more. As long as you are always available at her whim, how do you expect to hold her interest? Just tell her that you HAVE TO go. And if she does her puppy dog eyes impression, tell her that she's looks cute that way but she shouldn't over do it, then leave.

 

[DraGon_luv]

well see i am under house aresst, so how can i still be a challenge , and still not always be available?

 

[die4me]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Dude, just don't do that any more. As long as you are always available at her whim, how do you expect to hold her interest? Just tell her that you HAVE TO go. And if she does her puppy dog eyes impression, tell her that she's looks cute that way but she shouldn't over do it, then leave.

Amen.

But to the person who originally posted, I know what you're saying...don't fall for it...no girl is an exception. It doesn't matter who it is. I found that out the hard way. It'll start out small like this, and you'll tumble down eventually if you don't control it now. Remember, it doesn't matter at all who she is...