"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need To Lay Down The Law With An AW/Flirt!!

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Hi guys,

Need your help. Basically there's this girl in work who is a HUGE flirt with me. In fact she is a flirt with everyone in work, but especially me, as I use PUA techniques. I mean touching, basically having verbal sex too. This would be great, but she is a HUGE flirt. I haven't seen her go much further with anyone despite such an AW (although she may, in private)

We are going to be in the local bar tomorrow night, albeit with slightly different groups of people. This could be an opportunity.

Basically I want to either **** her (I'd settle for a kiss tomorrow night), or tell her to stop flirting. This is the message I want to convey to her.

How (in words if possible) do I get her to GET THE MESSAGE?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AverageHero said:
Basically there's this girl in work who is a HUGE flirt with me. In fact she is a flirt with everyone in work, but especially me, as I use PUA techniques. I mean touching, basically having verbal sex too. This would be great, but she is a HUGE flirt. I haven't seen her go much further with anyone despite such an AW (although she may, in private)... How (in words if possible) do I get her to GET THE MESSAGE?
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Hmm, it depends. How much do you like/need your job?
 
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"Verbal sex" omw I've heard it all now. Dude, it's not that hard. If you want to get a kiss, go in for the kiss. If she rejects you, tell her to stop being such a flirty biznatch and continue your work. You guys over complicate everything. Losers.
 
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5 posts.

Joined less than 1 month ago.

Knows lingo, throws it around, and professes to "use PUA techniques."

And yet, doesn't know how to talk to a girl?

Never mind. My nose is telling me that this guy smells like a troll.

If you're not a troll, dude, then stop thinking so damn much. What you need now is experience, not theory. Just talk to the girl. If she wants to bang, she'll bang. You're obviously horny (if you're not a troll), so it's not like you need to appear "more sexual" - if anything, you could afford to appear less desperate.
 
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loveshogun said:
Knows lingo, throws it around, and professes to "use PUA techniques."

And yet, doesn't know how to talk to a girl?
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lol, that describes the majority of the community. Knows all the tricks of the trade, yet still has no clue.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hi everybody,

Shogun - I am not a troll unfortunately. This is a true problem and I wish it wasn't. I actually over think things.

With regards to using PUA techniques. If we use a two step program to explain that initial attraction to sex.
1) Initial Attraction and flirting
2) Once initial attraction is secured, getting a ride/shag.

I am golden at the first part. But I freeze up totally at the second part. I would sincerly like to rectify this
 
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