Need To Lay Down The Law With An AW/Flirt!!

[AverageHero]

Hi guys,

Need your help. Basically there's this girl in work who is a HUGE flirt with me. In fact she is a flirt with everyone in work, but especially me, as I use PUA techniques. I mean touching, basically having verbal sex too. This would be great, but she is a HUGE flirt. I haven't seen her go much further with anyone despite such an AW (although she may, in private)

We are going to be in the local bar tomorrow night, albeit with slightly different groups of people. This could be an opportunity.

Basically I want to either **** her (I'd settle for a kiss tomorrow night), or tell her to stop flirting. This is the message I want to convey to her.

How (in words if possible) do I get her to GET THE MESSAGE?

 

[vatoloco]

Basically there's this girl in work who is a HUGE flirt with me. In fact she is a flirt with everyone in work, but especially me, as I use PUA techniques. I mean touching, basically having verbal sex too. This would be great, but she is a HUGE flirt. I haven't seen her go much further with anyone despite such an AW (although she may, in private)... How (in words if possible) do I get her to GET THE MESSAGE?

Hmm, it depends. How much do you like/need your job?

 

[TheJazz]

"Verbal sex" omw I've heard it all now. Dude, it's not that hard. If you want to get a kiss, go in for the kiss. If she rejects you, tell her to stop being such a flirty biznatch and continue your work. You guys over complicate everything. Losers.

 

[loveshogun]

5 posts.

Joined less than 1 month ago.

Knows lingo, throws it around, and professes to "use PUA techniques."

And yet, doesn't know how to talk to a girl?

Never mind. My nose is telling me that this guy smells like a troll.

If you're not a troll, dude, then stop thinking so damn much. What you need now is experience, not theory. Just talk to the girl. If she wants to bang, she'll bang. You're obviously horny (if you're not a troll), so it's not like you need to appear "more sexual" - if anything, you could afford to appear less desperate.

 

[evansblue]

Knows lingo, throws it around, and professes to "use PUA techniques."

And yet, doesn't know how to talk to a girl?

lol, that describes the majority of the community. Knows all the tricks of the trade, yet still has no clue.

 

[High Voltage]

Hmm, it depends. How much do you like/need your job?

+1. Ignore her. It's win-win for you.

 

[AverageHero]

Hi everybody,

Shogun - I am not a troll unfortunately. This is a true problem and I wish it wasn't. I actually over think things.

With regards to using PUA techniques. If we use a two step program to explain that initial attraction to sex.
1) Initial Attraction and flirting
2) Once initial attraction is secured, getting a ride/shag.

I am golden at the first part. But I freeze up totally at the second part. I would sincerly like to rectify this