"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need to know if I should text this girl or not

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PianoGuy33

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Okay everyone, so in class this girl gave me her number to catch her up on the material that she is going to miss. This happened about a week ago. Do you think if I text her something out of the blue that dosn't have to do with the hw, that will show my interest and then kill my chances with her?

She has been eyeing me in class too, but I don't want to text her so she thinks that she has me, and then loses all interest. I really want to text her though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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short answer NO
Resist the urge no matter how bad it is.
If you are going to try and engage in *cough* extra curriculum activities with her ;) do it in person. It will show her that you have the cahones that she is after instead of doing it over a txt. If you do it in person you can talk to her on many different levels not just verbally but physically and subconsciously as well. whereas a txt is a single level communication that cannot portray anything else or even just the tone of speech which plays a huge part in any communication.

or you could always call her instead. at least then you can actually talk. I personally hate txting as it can take forever to portray what it is that you are talking about.

either way you chose to do it good luck and have fun.
 
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Ya good idea. I kind of feel like texting a girl that dosn't text you first will always blow your chances with her. What do you think?
 
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PianoGuy33 said:
Ya good idea. I kind of feel like texting a girl that dosn't text you first will always blow your chances with her. What do you think?
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That's because your afraid. Your hoping for a safe route because you don't want to get rejected.

Where did you ever get the idea that texting a girl first is bad?

Men go after what they want & take it.








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