"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need to improve my overall performance for a test on the 29th of March

Taviii

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I'll make this short, I signed up for skydiving and on the 29th of March I'll have to take a test to prove that my body is fit for jumping. What I'll have to do:

-run 1 km in 3 minutes (hard)
-run 100 m in 12 seconds (hard)
-20 chin ups (hard)
-jump 2.5 m (easy)
-40 push ups (easy)

So running and lifting myself up to the bar will be the problem.

If this helps I'm 1.90 m tall and have 85 kg.

Give me any advice you can think of and is reasonable, maybe even a training plan, I will probably think and even try most of them because I have 2 months for this.

Thanks in advance!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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joekerr31

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this is going to sound like crazy advice but....

run everyday and do chin ups everyday.

wow, im a genius.
 

onyx

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running a 12 sec 100m is stupid if you ask me. Some people are not designed to run at that speed, even if their fitness levels are of a high standard.

This is for the military or something though right?
 

MrS

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1km in 3 mins?

This sounds like parachuting school in the army, same requirements as us.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BMX

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Wow, I just paid the money and they let me jump out of an airplane here in the states! As long as I was below 220 lbs or 100 kg's for that matter and I was it was all good and the chute opened. If this isn't for the military, find another dropzone or go to www.rosstraining.com and follow the programs on there. Work your anaerobic and aerobic systems and continue doing your chins, get a weight vest if you have to.
 
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