"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need to backwards rationalize this

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So I'm college right now, I just got outta the car (still in parking lot). It was raining today in california, so I see a a HB standing there with her guy friend. I go up to them and say "Hey, mind if I share an umbrella with you guys?" The girl was like "sure."

Then I said "I don't think we're all gonna fit under one umbrella."

The guy said "Don't worry I got one" then he go goes off to his truck.

So its just me and the girl left sharing an umbrella. She was holding it, so I said "I got it." I took the umbrella from her, and held it up to cover us two from the rain. We started walking to class.

We were fluff talking a bit, she says "I didn't wanna get outta bed today..." stuff like that , we were brushing up against each other in the rain, until we got into class...

How is it possible? I don't even know this girl.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Either the girl was a flirt who was trying to toy with the guy, or he was an AFC whom she wouldn't mind ditching. You, on the other hand, took initiative and learned a lesson -- that many people will be receptive toward your friendly advances.
 
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