"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Oni
Since you are working for size, a combination of Isometric(ISO) and Reactive Acceleration(RA) exercises will help.
First, you do the RA exercises. This wil trick your muscle into high muscle fiber recruitment, then you follow it up with ISO which means your effort will be exchanged for the cue for size.

Here's what you can do if you are working for a your chest:

N = # of sets

Session 1:

N x Bench Press @ 50% of 1RM
(On your first set, determine how many reps you can do in 30 sec. Then try to achieve that amount of reps per set in between 30-32 sec. If you take more than 32 sec to complete the reps, then you are done for the day. Rest 3 min between each set. )(The key here is speed, so bench as fast as you can)

Session 2:

N x Bench Press @ 50% of 1 RM + N x M(max time) ISO Bench Press @ 50% 1RM

For the bench press, it's the same as above, except you count the number of reps you can perform in 9 second. Then right after you finish you reps of bench, perform ISO right away until you can no longer hold the weight. You keep repeating this until you can longer keep up the number of reps in 9 sec or your M(max time) dropped by 3-4 sec.

By the way, when i say hold the weight, i dont mean let it rest on your chest, you have to hold it at CJC, meaning where it stresses your muscle the most.

Of course you can apply this method to toher muscles too, but i wouldnt go above 3. Take 4 days recovery between each session. Try it out and tell me how it goes.

And this will accomplish what? How will it accomplish it? It seems to me like this is a case of overanalyzing...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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