"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am a 27 yr old software engineer from India. I met this qualified girl and we both are exploring each other as future partners. she is not tht beautiful but i like her a lot and want 2 pursue a long term relationship

The first date,10th nov, was nice and it went quite well. We both looked at each other for long and talked about stuff.

She immediately sent me an SMS after the end of the date tht she had a wonderful time.

My posture was okay but I am always apprehensive about myself. I will have a second date with her (sometime in January) but I don’t know how I should approach her this time.

I am actually looking at sosuave.com and worked on my posture and body. The reason for the delay in dates is I am in Australia for a short term project and would be returning back by January.

We keep in touch through chats, emails and SMS’.

I am an indian and she is also an indian semi conservative girl and am looking after a long term relationship (marriage). She is smart, intelligent and very well educated.

I am better than average but not very good looking (I guess so).

Though I am tall (6.1”) and am built well I still have tht apprehension tht I don’t look good. Many ppl will die to have my height and stature.

One reason could be is tht my teeth are not tht great. I will be doing something about them soon. I also get conscious very soon about myself.

Kindly let me know how I should go ahead wid her. I don’t want to touch her before she feels okay or i get tht feeling.

Need the help of the don juans of sosuave.com. I feel i need to increase the confidence factor in me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pgbiswas79 said:
I am a 27 yr old software engineer from India. I met this qualified girl and we both are exploring each other as future partners. she is not tht beautiful but i like her a lot and want 2 pursue a long term relationship

The first date,10th nov, was nice and it went quite well. We both looked at each other for long and talked about stuff.

She immediately sent me an SMS after the end of the date tht she had a wonderful time.

My posture was okay but I am always apprehensive about myself. I will have a second date with her (sometime in January) but I don’t know how I should approach her this time.

I am actually looking at sosuave.com and worked on my posture and body. The reason for the delay in dates is I am in Australia for a short term project and would be returning back by January.

We keep in touch through chats, emails and SMS’.

I am an indian and she is also an indian semi conservative girl and am looking after a long term relationship (marriage). She is smart, intelligent and very well educated.

I am better than average but not very good looking (I guess so).

Though I am tall (6.1”) and am built well I still have tht apprehension tht I don’t look good. Many ppl will die to have my height and stature.

One reason could be is tht my teeth are not tht great. I will be doing something about them soon. I also get conscious very soon about myself.

Kindly let me know how I should go ahead wid her. I don’t want to touch her before she feels okay or i get tht feeling.

Need the help of the don juans of sosuave.com. I feel i need to increase the confidence factor in me.

Your looks are not the greatest but in the indian community it doesn't matter as long as u have money or phd under ur name.... I have worked with indians at my prior jobs I know how they are....


I can tell u havent fvcked many girls but u may marry HB7 indian... if u have phd under ur belt.....

If u were out on the field in america u would struggle very much to get pvssy. But being indian saved your asss.


My prediction u will marry average indian girl and lose virginity to her....
 
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pgbiswas79 said:
She immediately sent me an SMS after the end of the date tht she had a wonderful time...
Wonderfulis a big word -This is a good sign - she wants to see you again!

pgbiswas79 said:
My posture was okay but I am always apprehensive about myself. I will have a second date with her (sometime in January) but I don’t know how I should approach her this time....
You are trying too hard to impress and be perfect -- relax - don't look too calculating and uptight!! Next date do something fun!!! Girls like to have fun and happy memories!! Take a pictire of you two hugging an elephant or something so that she can put it on her wall and dream aboout you and the elephant before she goes to sleep!!!

pgbiswas79 said:
We keep in touch through chats, emails and SMS’.....
Keep this to a bare minimum!!!!! You want face to face time -- women build emotional attachment through face-to-face contact and not SMS/E-mail!!! :down:

pgbiswas79 said:
I am an indian and she is also an indian semi conservative girl and am looking after a long term relationship (marriage). She is smart, intelligent and very well educated..
Is she a virgin??? If so, you have a keeper!!! Only hors here in america!!!

This forum stresses sex more than relationships so be careful about accepting some of the advice given!!
 
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Last Man Standing said:
Wonderfulis a big word -This is a good sign - she wants to see you again!

You are trying too hard to impress and be perfect -- relax - don't look too calculating and uptight!! Next date do something fun!!! Girls like to have fun and happy memories!! Take a pictire of you two hugging an elephant or something so that she can put it on her wall and dream aboout you and the elephant before she goes to sleep!!!

Keep this to a bare minimum!!!!! You want face to face time -- women build emotional attachment through face-to-face contact and not SMS/E-mail!!! :down:

Is she a virgin??? If so, you have a keeper!!! Only hors here in america!!!

This forum stresses sex more than relationships so be careful about accepting some of the advice given!!
Your thread is being hijacked!! Don't take these dudes seriously!!!
 
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