"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So i used to use this KUZA coconut oil product on my hair along with gel that was sold at this black beauty shop...but it seems as if the manufacture has discontinued the coconut oil. Ive tried other coconut oil brands...but none of them work as well as the old one.

the thing is that my hair is really dry and thick(its like an afro shape...and when i used to put the coconut oil it would be shiny and curly...i guess u can say greasy) So ive been trying other things and have had no luck so far

Ive tried:

gel alone-didnt work because it made my hair very frizzy and messy

pomade-didnt work, the curls were messy rather than neat

i bough got2b glue and im going to try wax next...anyone have any tips?!

here's a pic of how my hair looks with the coconut oil...
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/xxsandipxx/detail?.dir=9c0c&.dnm=df8a.jpg&.src=ph

and here's a pic of how it looks dry:
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/xxsandipxx/detail?.dir=d997&.dnm=8887.jpg&.src=ph
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wow, welcome to my world. I've been Googling thick hair for months now. From what I've learned.



- Don't Shampoo everyday. Every other day, every other other day. There's even some that suggest just using conditioner.

- Don't blow dry

- rubbing your scalp (not hair) in circles stimulates oils... what we people with thick hair lack


That's about all I learned.



I've used L'Oreal Mega Glue (Extreme Sculpting & Quick Drying). I've used Regis Whipped Wax, I've used Regis Shine Pomade. I've used LA Looks Cur Life & some weak gel. I've used Garnier Wet look gel. Nothing works.

I try to spike my thick, wavy hair. Not blow out like you, but spike straight up--trust me, doesn't work.


Update me on got2b glue and the wax, though. Hopefully something will work for you, and I could use it too. :p
 

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If you actually want to thicken your hair, use a dandruff shampoo called "Nizoral" 2-3 times per week.

It actually increases the diameter of the hairs.

Do a Google search for more info.
 
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