Hello Folks,
This is a follow-up to one of my recent posts about two women who I felt might have been giving me some kind of hint/green light at my gym. With one of them, it seemed to be somewhat more certain, but with the other, I wasn't exactly sure at all. Those of you who may have read that post may recall that I mentioned there is a blonde woman (college-aged, probably 23-27) years old, tall with an incredibly big ass that looks so unbelievably lustful in spandex. That's all she wears all the time at the gym and almost every guy at my gym right now seems to be going crazy over her...and she loves the attention that she's getting. The thing however, is that she makes herself seem very unapproachable, perhaps as a "test", I'm not sure. She hardly smiles or talks to any men at the gym except the personal trainers, doesn't make eye contact with men who smile at her and always looks as if she has some sort of a frown on her face. Plus, she often has headphones on as well, making it even more difficult.
Now, I've heard some people say that it often isn't a good idea to try talking to a woman at the gym when she's in the middle of her workout, especially if she has headphones on, although I have done that in the past. Maybe it depends on the woman? Previously, I have acted as if I "wasn't interested" or "didn't notice" women who knew or felt they were "hot," and this has played in my favor. Doing that has seemed to cause them to wonder why I seem to be one of the very few guys who doesn't seem to give her attention. But in this particular woman's case, it's very difficult to even attempt to say for sure if she may have noticed me. Besides, most men at my gym act as if they are scared to approach her.
So here's my dilemma: On one hand, I don't want to be like "just another of those guys trying to hit on me" in her eyes, so I'm kinda holding back on that for a little bit to differentiate myself somehow from the rest of the pack; on the other hand, if I wait too long, given how big her butt is, I know for sure that some other guy will hit on her. It already seems as if some personal trainer may have talked to her and gotten her number, but I'm not sure. The last I remember, I saw one of the personal trainers who to the best of my knowledge is messing around with a married client, saying to the woman in question: "Ok. I'll talk to you, all right?" and the woman responded: "All right." Of course, their profession gives them an an unequal advantage over other men that isn't
Quite a few times, when she sees me on a machine in a particular section, she will look at the area where I'm working out for about a brief second or so, as if she were thinking about coming toward me to work out, but she never does. Last weekend, I kinda noticed her, a few minutes after she came into the gym, looking very briefly twice at the area where I was working out.
So given the immense amount of attention this woman is getting from alomst every guy at the gym who all seem to want to talk to her, is there anything that I can do that could actually make this woman instead sort of come toward me or give me a clear hint if she is interested? Do I continue to play the game by pretending as if I'm not dying for her like most of the other guys or do I quickly jump on it if I ever find an opportunity when she doesn't have her "shield" up at the gym before someone else, probably a personal trainer, hits it?
This is a follow-up to one of my recent posts about two women who I felt might have been giving me some kind of hint/green light at my gym. With one of them, it seemed to be somewhat more certain, but with the other, I wasn't exactly sure at all. Those of you who may have read that post may recall that I mentioned there is a blonde woman (college-aged, probably 23-27) years old, tall with an incredibly big ass that looks so unbelievably lustful in spandex. That's all she wears all the time at the gym and almost every guy at my gym right now seems to be going crazy over her...and she loves the attention that she's getting. The thing however, is that she makes herself seem very unapproachable, perhaps as a "test", I'm not sure. She hardly smiles or talks to any men at the gym except the personal trainers, doesn't make eye contact with men who smile at her and always looks as if she has some sort of a frown on her face. Plus, she often has headphones on as well, making it even more difficult.
Now, I've heard some people say that it often isn't a good idea to try talking to a woman at the gym when she's in the middle of her workout, especially if she has headphones on, although I have done that in the past. Maybe it depends on the woman? Previously, I have acted as if I "wasn't interested" or "didn't notice" women who knew or felt they were "hot," and this has played in my favor. Doing that has seemed to cause them to wonder why I seem to be one of the very few guys who doesn't seem to give her attention. But in this particular woman's case, it's very difficult to even attempt to say for sure if she may have noticed me. Besides, most men at my gym act as if they are scared to approach her.
So here's my dilemma: On one hand, I don't want to be like "just another of those guys trying to hit on me" in her eyes, so I'm kinda holding back on that for a little bit to differentiate myself somehow from the rest of the pack; on the other hand, if I wait too long, given how big her butt is, I know for sure that some other guy will hit on her. It already seems as if some personal trainer may have talked to her and gotten her number, but I'm not sure. The last I remember, I saw one of the personal trainers who to the best of my knowledge is messing around with a married client, saying to the woman in question: "Ok. I'll talk to you, all right?" and the woman responded: "All right." Of course, their profession gives them an an unequal advantage over other men that isn't
Quite a few times, when she sees me on a machine in a particular section, she will look at the area where I'm working out for about a brief second or so, as if she were thinking about coming toward me to work out, but she never does. Last weekend, I kinda noticed her, a few minutes after she came into the gym, looking very briefly twice at the area where I was working out.
So given the immense amount of attention this woman is getting from alomst every guy at the gym who all seem to want to talk to her, is there anything that I can do that could actually make this woman instead sort of come toward me or give me a clear hint if she is interested? Do I continue to play the game by pretending as if I'm not dying for her like most of the other guys or do I quickly jump on it if I ever find an opportunity when she doesn't have her "shield" up at the gym before someone else, probably a personal trainer, hits it?
