"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Need Songs.
- Thread starter TizZle
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Scar Tissue
Don Juan
But to OP, what kind of music do you listen to? Its a lot easier to make good playlists if you familiar with lots of music. Listen to it all; rap, classic rock, RnB, reagge, hip hop and new rock. Maybe its just me but knowing music makes you a more rounded person in the social setting.
Blue on Black
Hey Ya
Santeria
Wanksta
You Shook Me All Night Long
Also keep in mind what kind of party it is and what kind of people will be there, it may alter what you play.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
this was my walkout song for my two mma fights:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRTX9djlKFc