"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need something fun to do!!!

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Ok. I'm getting bored and sick of lurking these forums all day!
Don't bash me for this, I don't need to hear it.
I don't have any money and it seems like everything fun to do out there costs $$$$!!!! If you can contribute a few fun things to do that is free and is socially inviting, that would be greatly appreciated. Not only for myself, but others here as well. Don't give me that "you need a life" crap 'cause I'm fully aware of it and doing my damnedest to change that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1.origami, you can learn from youtube or just pirate a book

2.swimming (ok that requires money, but i hope it's not expensive at your place)

3.hiking,you need ragged clothes+ water +food + mountain or hill

4. jogging you need ragged clothes + shoes

5.join a local explorer's club,they go to waterfalls, mountains, camping, its usually free

6.join a club at university(if you are in college)

7.astronomy, there are clubs around you and mostly they have gathering nights, where members gather and watch the stars, etc...you don't need a telescope, they will provide OK telescopes at the gatherings and meetings...

8.flute,you can get a really cheap wooden flute and learn to play using the internet, i did that when i was in highschool

just some stuff i do myself,
 

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thank you, switch
origami, i already know. but i haven't done it in awhile,
swimming, might be free if you can find an unpolluted water source without "no swimming" signs posted around
hiking is a good idea (they all are, really) but it's starting to get cold in these parts this time of year. all in all, great ideas! keep 'em coming!
 
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you may be blind, but apparently you can't see! I'm looking for FUN ideas.
we all know that work is not fun. I will not become a slave to the establishment!

26 and no money - get a job.
didn't i also say no bashing? and also, no "get a life" crap?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asterisk said:
you may be blind, but apparently you can't see! I'm looking for FUN ideas.
we all know that work is not fun. I will not become a slave to the establishment!



didn't i also say no bashing? and also, no "get a life" crap?
I think it's highly optimistic to post this on a board that is all about male improvement and how to become a man of value and not expect any negative feedback.

So yeah, get a job. And cut your hair while you're at it ;)

Life is better when you have money. It also gives youmore freedom to actually do the fun things in life that you really want to do.

It's all up to you though. You decide in your life.

Some stuff to consider though:

- Go to the library and read and learn. Not exactly fun in the traditional sense, but learning new stuff and developing your mind is always a fun thing in my opinion. Also free and you can chat up intellectual slvts.

- Get into sports. Some sports hav low initial costs and will both increase your social circle as well as your health. And it's great fun. Most sports are.

- Free concerts. Look it up. Should be plenty.

- Game nights. Gather friends and play some social board games like Risk etc. Great fun.

If you had money i'd give youa hundred more.. :p
 
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