need some urgent help plz (time sensitive)

[coin]

Ok, the girl I am interested in from *this thread * just IMed me, and I had deleted her IM this morning. She said this:

"hey, i got your message last night. I can't do anything tonight. I already made plans in (other city 1 hr away) so I'm heading there right after work. Sorry."

I haven't responded yet (not unusual as I am often away from computer) but what should I say? Should I respond at all?

 

[Reto]

I would respond "OK. See ya..." and leave it at that.

I didn't read the whole thread, but she's either blowing you off or just real busy.

Personally, I'm not going to deal with chicks who can't make a little time for me if they really are interested.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

"hey it's all kool and the gang... have a great time, I know I will. if you hear about someone streaking at the fireworks, it's me ok? My buds are going to spray paint '(Her Name here) sexually abused this body!' on my sweaty, naked body. It's goign to be phat, I'll send ya some pics for your viewing enjoyment! 8)'

 

[tamales]

I know you won't want to hear this but trust me, move on and like someone said. Say okay, see ya. Keep it at that and in my opinion you need to poof off the face of the planet. When a girl is really interested sure they might play games at first and not be readily available but not this much. And you have better things to do and this seems like onitus.

As hard as it might be, if you really like her then poof off the planet and be no where to be found. For at least two weeks. If she is into you she'll call or at least wonder where and what you are doing.

Then ask again and if this time she blows you off then never ever go back.

Hugs, Tamales

As I think you are really into this chick.

 

[coin]

I am really into her

but thanks for the advice anyway. I'm not even going to respond to her message. I deleted her AIM already and it's not worth my time to put it back on my list.

Patience and control. Gotta learn these things. ...and the good news is, because there is always good news, I don't like her as much as I did a few days ago. I had a talk with one of my friends about her (which I rarely do, I don't like to discuss my relationships generally) and after that talk I was a lot less infatuated.