"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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need some tips for my first date with a "princess"

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ok so some of u might have seen my "should i call her" thread....anyways i followed everyones advice and it worked cause she called me and i set up a date for tomorrow(tuesday)....anyways today she calls me out of the blue and i find out shes a so called "princess"....she loves the whole chanel, dior, expensive ****.....so we talk on the phone for like 20 mins cause she wouldnt shut up even though i told her i needed to do something, and she tells me that i seem conceited(not sure if its good).....she also warns me that she is not an easy girl(?) and she tells me that she usually dates other guys, for which i tell her i date other girls too......she also reveals a lot of personal problems(dad in jail, ex BF of 3 years in jail too).....i know this girl is gonna bring lots of problems, but how can i work her so that i can hit it, cause shes so ****ing hot!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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haram said:
she also reveals a lot of personal problems(dad in jail, ex BF of 3 years in jail too).....i know this girl is gonna bring lots of problems,
run as far as you can!
 

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u guys serious? this girl is like a 9.5 out of 10.....huge ass, epic tits, gorgeous face
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LOL, wow, thats a gutsy move...man if i landed a 9.5 i don't know if i'd have the jewels to stand her up!! But hey, im still learning
 

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haram said:
u guys serious? this girl is like a 9.5 out of 10.....huge ass, epic tits, gorgeous face

Do you actually think would be worth all the effort just because she's hot? Plus she's given you a verbal warning!!! How much money do you have in your wallet anyway, are you attached to it?
 

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haram said:
u guys serious? this girl is like a 9.5 out of 10.....huge ass, epic tits, gorgeous face
And apparently a giant pedestal made of titanium you couldn't possibly hope to destroy.
 

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Don't listen to all these crybabies who only go after easy targets. With Princesses, you really have to neg her. What most people don't realize is that Princess's have more fragile ego's than most women. Therefore use it to your advantage. Tease her about something in her appearance, make fun of it/her, she'll sh1t test you back, saying do I really look that way, don't fail, keep teasing her.

She'll try to overcompensate and win you over. You'll stand out above the crowd because everyone else is gawking at her huge ass, epic tits and gorgeous face.

But don't forget, everyone above is throwing red flags for a reason. Be vary wary of the drama in this girls life, she's goin to try her best to suck you in. Make sure you have other women to keep you distracted, otherwise your in for a bunch of headaches.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MacAvoy said:
Don't listen to all these crybabies who only go after easy targets. .
Not that your points aren't valid, but I think the main issue is that this girl CLEARLY has SEVERE daddy issues.

This is the greatest path to misery. There's a difference between going after a challenge and jumping straight into the path of guaranteed phsyco-drama.
 
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