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I want some thoughts on how I can remain mysterious to this girl (23 years old medical student) I'm dating. Though everything seems to be going good so far. Here is the low down, please read.. its necessary.

Date 1 - We had dinner and a movie. Conversation was good. I didnt reveal much about myself. (wasn't a DJ member yet)

Date 2 - We had dinner and a movie (her choice).

Date 3 - We ate and rented a movie. Went back to my place. We held hands and made out afterwards. She fell asleep in my arms. (applied the kissing techniques discussed on this site, also used light kino on her neck, cheeks and played with her hair. Still wasnt a DJ member though)

Date 4 - I made dinner. Alfredo, salad, bread and a pineapple upside down cake. She is asking to know more about me. (I'm mysterious to her) Told her about my past relationships and she told me hers. Asked me why I asked her out, I asked her why she said yes. She tells me "she feels safe with me, I dont put up a front and I have a lot of the qualities that she likes". Made out on my couch. She asked me what I was thinking and I said "it feels right" and she replied with "yeah it does". We both wanted to keep in contact once she moves an hour away. She left at 5am.

Date 5 - I went to her apt. and had dinner with her and two of her classmates. I think her classmates wanted to meet me. Afterwards I helped her clean up and she came upstairs to watch a movie with me. We made out.

Met her parents - Her family came in to help her pack and I offered to help. Parents paid for my dinner and I helped her dad pack up the Uhual. Her and I kissed a couple times.

Date 6 - Her dad bought us dinner that night. We rented a movie and came back to my place. We kissed and talked about things. She said, "She wished we had talked earlier so she would have known if we were compatible for a serious relationship, but added she was hurt before and didnt want to jump into anything serious." We both care for each other and admitted we were both beginning to have feelings towards each other. Both agreed we would enjoy what we have together and if it was meant to be then it would happen. I asked and she considers us dating. More or less admitted she was a virgin waiting for marriage.

She moved an hour away.

Date 7 - I drove to her new apt. to see her. First thing she does is kiss me. We went to the zoo and I applied lots of Kino. She was receptive and kino'd me right back. Held hands in the car. We had dinner and she continues to ask me to tell her more about myself. (Im still mysterious) While waiting for our table she saw a woman looking at me and proceeded to turn to me and kiss me as if to say, "hes mine". Went back to her place, she showed me photo albums and we watched a movie. We made out a long time. I left late.

She emailed me 3 days later - Asked how I was doing. Said she had a good time and would let me know her class schedule so we could see each other again. I called her back that night and we talked. Set up a date for me to see her the 11th. She told me to call her this next week before the 11th.
 

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What are you guys thoughts? Whats your read on her and what can I do to keep her interested?

How can I remain mysterious yet let her know more about me since she keeps asking. Trying not to do something stupid to mess this up.
 

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1. dont worry about messing it up.

if you are worried..then ur not ready for it.

2. how old are you? 31?

how old is she? she is still a virgin?
 

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Im not worrying about it, but I just dont want to mess it up. I do feel comfortable where it stands right now though. I am 31 and she is 23.

At this point she is wanting me to call her next week before Sat. the 11th when I head over there again. I was thinking I would call on Wed. perhaps even text message her. Yes, from what I gathered from us talking she has not had sex. Told me her xbf didnt get as far in 4 years as he had hoped.
 

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well ARK congratulations bro, you have found yourself a virgin.....fantasic!

I have good news and bad news for ya, based on what it looks like, I could be wrong though, but here is the good news....

She is interested!

The bad news.....I doubt if she is serious in getting into a relationship, and it LOOKS like she is still has other options as well...


Now, guys mess up all the time, by WANTING to be in a relationship, bro, unless you want to marry or get some kids, you dont NEED a relationship, trust me, you will still get affection, dates, and everything, just no ties.....okay.

Dont rush this.

Continue to have fun, say fun, FUN....with her, do not, DO NOT, take this seriously, honestly.

Can this go somewhere?- It could.

Will this go somewhere?- depends on you.

If you try to force her into a relationship, that shows desperation on your part, but I could be wrong........but it would seem that if you were a don juan and all the women wanted you, then she would be more eager to tie you down before someone takes you away, good example....was when that girl was looking at you and she started kissing you right away....get my point....

I would go out and talk with other girls.....let this girl know...that she aint the only one.....there is competition.....then, she will be more eager to tie you down in a relationship...

For the only way a woman would want us to get into a relationship, is if she has a fear of losing you to another woman, no bytch wants to lose the great catch......got me?
 

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Thanks for some input PE. I agree, I dont think she is serious in getting into a relationship either. In fact she more or less said that but was quick to answer my question with "We are dating".

One thing she did say though is that since she didnt want to get into a serious relationship she wanted to let me know that I should date if the opportunity arises and she would do the same if asked. However, then she turned around and said that she didn't like to date this guy, and that guy, rather she preferred to have one guy that she could depend on.

We did both agree to have fun and enjoy what we have and that if it was meant to be then it would happen. So you gave sound advice there.

Interesting thought on her kissing me right away. I cleverly caught what was happening too. The couple was sitting right across from us. The woman kept looking at us and when she looked at me thats when my date noticed it. She quickly gave the kiss. I had to smile. heh.

And yes.. I am the great catch.

P.S. Not so sure about the whole canceling thing. She is in school to be a doctor. We arent going to have a lot of time to do stuff as it is. Maybe that will work to my advantage. MUHAHAHAHA
 

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hey ark, also if you havent already, read the thread I made today called, If you do this, you will get puzzy everywhere you go....

and one more thing, despite what people have told you....if it were meant to be, it would happen, is total B.S. That is something we tell nice guys who just got dumped to make them feel better.......

God does not sprinkle magic from heaven and make you and a woman hit it off.....because if he did that, if it failed it would be his fault....and there is no fault in God....

How about this.......I will get my shyt together, and choose the girl I want, instead of the girl I was meant to be with....there is no such girl, ever.

Haha, you might as well be on Coming To America with Eddie Murphy, and have your parents choose your wife....damn that would svck.
 

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PE, I agree and see your point. Magic does not sprinkle from the heavens. My shyt has been gathered and I am the Great Catch. If she wants to be with me and I want to be with her then it will happen.
 

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no ARK...it will not happen unless you learn these techniques and apply them to yourself..........that is the ONLY way it will happen, pray three times, spin on your head, and dance in the church until midnight.....until you learn and apply....aint shyt gon change....she aint the problem, buddy....its YOU.
 

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I know PE, thats why I said my shyt has been gathered. Im learning these techniques and applying them. The Kino, the eye contact, etc. I've already seen this girl melt like a toasted subway sandwich in my arms several times.
 

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Hey what can I say, Im a great catch! :D

We went to the zoo on Memorial Day. That was different. ;)

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
?!?!

For the first 6 dates you just sat around and had dinner?! I'm suprised she stayed with you!! hehe. Get off your @ss and go out and have some fun!! ACTION DATES!
 

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Actually now that I really think about it, during those dates she was studying really hard for her State boards exam. The only time she didnt study or stress out about the upcoming test was when she was with me. So all she wanted to do during a date is unwind from school. Dinner and a movie sounded wonderful to her. So those non-action dates actually worked for me.

Now she associates relaxing and unwinding with going on a date with me. Which explains why she tells me she feels so relaxed and comfortable when she is with me.

She actually told me that med school asks the students what they do to relax. She told me she didnt know how she was going to say, "Kiss the guy Im dating."
 
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