Need some Support

[Atomskx]

Hello, im a high schooler, but im quite mature, and developed, and just looking for some solid advice to help me get my goal, or move on,
-iv known this girl, im senior, shes junior, im a gamer, and shes a little bit more of a hardcore gamer, yes were talkin WoW (World of warcraft) here, but amazingly shes quite cute, and skinny. So iv already established, phone number, and flowing conversations. She sits right next to me in the back of class, first period. Now it seems as she is afraid to go out, and do any social action, unless her brother is with her, like the norm for to, while she does things, with is mainly just a Gaming shack.
When i try asking her, if shed like to do something the upcoming weekend, or lets get together at this game shack, shed try to bring her brother along, or shed say that she doesnt like to "go outside" and shes basically trying to pull off the isolated, anti-outside gamer girl. So i got tired, and let it be, she was already showing slight signs of interest, but once i really stopped talking to her, she started trying to catch my attention more, with more "Strong" greetings when i first come into class, or trying to talk to me on skype because of some stupid topic she can make up, but before i stopped talking to her, she would never bring up a topic out of the abyss. So Please enlighten me, is she worth my investment to continue, because currently shes the only girl im truly interested in for a relationship. What should be my course of action, because now that shes shown some more definite signs of interest.

P.s- I Do not play WoW, my average gaming a day would be about 3-4 hours, yes it does seem like quite a bit, but usually im gaming 4/7 days a week. This would be my honest evaluation

 

[Racecar]

First of all, if you do, stop playing World of Warcraft. Even if you're a teenager or one of those guys who claims to "play in moderation," there are better uses of your time and money. You can only rationalize a $15/month investment by devoting a proportionate amount of time into the game. All the gold, achievements and mounts in the world amount to nothing once you turn off the game. Learn a new skill, play an instrument or read a book - anything to get away from that wretched game.

As you've already seen, once you decrease your SUPPLY or availability to the women, her DEMAND will subsequently increase provided you've established yourself as someone of value. Don't let her Skype with you whenever she wants. You don't want to be easily accessible. She must work to CHASE you - the Great Catch.

I would be willing to bet that a girl like that has been either spoiled by her parents or used to getting her way. She probably sees herself as a rebel or someone "unique." I've dealt with those types before. Whatever you do, do not supplicate her and do your best to assert a dominant frame over the relationship. Be a little selfish. Have her do things for you. Be a MAN.

 

[floydb25]

Video games rule, but Black Ops: Zombies is where its at. It doesn't sound like this girl is that into you, though. Everything she does is very friendly in nature. Sitting by you, talking to you, and playing games together means nothing. Not every interaction with a female is sexual, you know. You have things in common, and she enjoys your company. Doesn't mean she wants to date you. Bringing other people along and making up excuses are never a good thing. Pretty sure she knows your interest already, and isn't reciprocating. Her coming around when you back away doesn't mean she's gaining interest. She just wants to hang out with her friend again.

Unless there's other details you aren't providing, but that's the vibe from what you've given.

 

[Atomskx]

Video games rule, but Black Ops: Zombies is where its at. It doesn't sound like this girl is that into you, though. Everything she does is very friendly in nature. Sitting by you, talking to you, and playing games together means nothing. Not every interaction with a female is sexual, you know. You have things in common, and she enjoys your company. Doesn't mean she wants to date you. Bringing other people along and making up excuses are never a good thing. Pretty sure she knows your interest already, and isn't reciprocating. Her coming around when you back away doesn't mean she's gaining interest. She just wants to hang out with her friend again.

Unless there's other details you aren't providing, but that's the vibe from what you've given.

Yes of course im missing some info in here, because that would be to much to write out, but i can insure you, her chase back to me, was not to Gain her "friend" back. So far, as a psychological and neurological active studier, i can say that she has built a comfort zone, is afraid of change, because a BIG peice of info i left out was, she has never had a relationship, big mess, right? So currently i know strongly, she could deny me because of the fact, that shes afraid of change or get some affection from a male, because she is use to her norm, so this would cause her to not want to participate in such things, because of the fear of change, and most human's dont like drastic change, specially when you have not experienced much else in ur life.