need some support

[Five To One]

Long story short
Girlfriend told me she was basicly waiting for marriage before sex.
I dont know what love is but it makes me sick when I think of her being with someone else.

Let me know that breaking up with her is the right thing because this is going to really suck. I kills me to break up with her but I know I have to.

Dont suggest getting her more horney and just putting it in to see if she will stop me beucase I cant do that to her now that she has told me she doesnt want sex. She would regret it the next day and I would feel bad for tricking her like that.


The way I see it is if I break up with her now I could get back with her some time down the road. But if I stay with her, like I want to, but get caught cheating on her then I would lose her probably forever.

Am I thinking clear here? Tell me im doing the right thing

 

[jeffthechef]

She doesnt awnt to do anything related to sex? or only the bam-bam tap-tap?

either way, what do you want from the relationship? sex? if so, then you dont want a relationship, you just want sex..If that's the case, she wont give it to you so you'll have to end it, or cheat..but if you do either of these it shows how weak your principles are...i wouldn't be too surprised though, the majority of American teens have sex at 11 and 12..sadly.

best thing is..stop thinking with your penis and start using your head...
DISCIPLINE

 

[KontrollerX]

You're doing the right thing.

You have your own frame of what you want out of a relationship and like Rollo says if there's no sex there is no relationship.

Desire is not negotiated.

If she wanted to fvck you, if she was attracted enough to fvck you it would've happened already.

If she gives it up to someother guy who she doesn't marry then you've just got confirmation that she lied to you about wanting to wait.

The true translation of things is she wanted to make YOU wait.

She had no intention of making her "A Guy" as Str8up calls it wait.

 

[Five To One]

She doesnt awnt to do anything related to sex? or only the bam-bam tap-tap?

either way, what do you want from the relationship? sex? if so, then you dont want a relationship, you just want sex..If that's the case, she wont give it to you so you'll have to end it, or cheat..but if you do either of these it shows how weak your principles are...i wouldn't be too surprised though, the majority of American teens have sex at 11 and 12..sadly.

best thing is..stop thinking with your penis and start using your head...
DISCIPLINE

Im a little confused with your post.
I want a relationship with her and I want sex. Basicly I want a normal relationship. But a relationship without sex is missing too much from it I feel.

You said that breaking up with her would show how weak my principles are but how is leaving someone for something you believe in weak.

Yea I agree with you, 11 and 12 is too young for sex, but 18 isnt.

Discipline as in I should be able to suppress my need for sex? I have done that for a while now and its not working


We have different views on life it looks like but feel free to explain a bit more, im willing to listen.


Oh btw I plan on ljbf her or some other lame excuse, telling her the real reason im breaking up with her would cause every girl in my high school to hate me

 

[jeffthechef]

you're 18?...well if you are..and you guys have been together for a long time....like a year then i can understand how you feel...but if less than a year...i would side with her...i think she's probably scared of pregnancy and std's more than anything..so if you can figure out exactly why she wants to wait till shes married then maybe you can figure out how to resolve it